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[ar0ck]

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Hi my name is Alex, and Ive been single for exactly one year today.

We need a support group thing going on here :lol:

I dont want to hear it if your not single :finger:

[skorpion317]

same here...single since july.

[BigAls87Z28]

Well, I guess you can throw me on that list.
Broke up with my ex for the last time.


Single since Sunday. Havent been single since I was 16.

[79dizZy28]

tony/single/been a while :? :playboy:

[ProtekYoNutz]

:cry: well sadly so been single now for....3 years...only im a girl (not a bachelor)

[skorpion317]

:cry: well sadly so been single now for....3 years...only im a girl (not a bachelor)

you're a bachelorette.

[ProtekYoNutz]

:cry: well sadly so been single now for....3 years...only im a girl (not a bachelor)

you're a bachelorette.

:lol: yuppers

[GrandmasterCow]

haha... single since january =\

[TheWraith]

:cry: well sadly so been single now for....3 years...only im a girl (not a bachelor)

maybe you should look out of state :lol:

<-- single for a long time, not keeping score.

[matt98ls1]

ive been single since February.... found out one too many things about my ex's life at her college :(

[Ian]

I've been single for over a year. :cry: :lol:

[arc555]

Is this some kind of support group?
My name is Anthony, 17 going to turn 18 in 22 days, single for a while now.

[12secondv6]

Single here too

[ProtekYoNutz]

:cry: well sadly so been single now for....3 years...only im a girl (not a bachelor)

maybe you should look out of state :lol:

<-- single for a long time, not keeping score.

last serious relationship and i duno if i would even call it that was wit a guy from PA..... :roll: lookin out of state doesnt matter all guys are the same.... :cry:

[ShitOnWheels]

Bachelorette here since November 2002 (Will doesn't count, we were never gf/bf)...freidns with benefits (when one party doesn't lie the entire time) is the best way to go! ;)

[TheWraith]

:cry: well sadly so been single now for....3 years...only im a girl (not a bachelor)

maybe you should look out of state :lol:

<-- single for a long time, not keeping score.

last serious relationship and i duno if i would even call it that was wit a guy from PA..... :roll: lookin out of state doesnt matter all guys are the same.... :cry:

i'll agree with you, most guys are douche bags. one of the last women i dated actually accused me of dishonesty and a bunch of other stuff i didn't do because i didn't call her when my brother landed in intensive care in the hospital, and a few weeks later i cancelled a date because i got in an accident with my car. She didn't even believe me until i sent her a picture of the car. no doubt because she was used to guys who are liars and cheaters. even though i told her to get lost, I can't blame _just_ her because I'm fully aware how a lot of guys are. I still don't like the fact that she assumed I'd be the same and judged me based on some other ****er's actions. I'm banking on the fact that I'll eventually find a decent woman who hasn't been burned big time by some **** bag before. Because I'm sorry, but I'm not going to tiptoe around someone and humor their inappropriate actions and pre-judging because they're confusing me with some ******* based solely on my gender.

[GrandmasterCow]

:cry: well sadly so been single now for....3 years...only im a girl (not a bachelor)

maybe you should look out of state :lol:

<-- single for a long time, not keeping score.

last serious relationship and i duno if i would even call it that was wit a guy from PA..... :roll: lookin out of state doesnt matter all guys are the same.... :cry:

i'll agree with you, most guys are douche bags. one of the last women i dated actually accused me of dishonesty and a bunch of other stuff i didn't do because i didn't call her when my brother landed in intensive care in the hospital, and a few weeks later i cancelled a date because i got in an accident with my car. She didn't even believe me until i sent her a picture of the car. no doubt because she was used to guys who are liars and cheaters. even though i told her to get lost, I can't blame _just_ her because I'm fully aware how a lot of guys are. I still don't like the fact that she assumed I'd be the same and judged me based on some other ****er's actions. I'm banking on the fact that I'll eventually find a decent woman who hasn't been burned big time by some **** bag before. Because I'm sorry, but I'm not going to tiptoe around someone and humor their inappropriate actions and pre-judging because they're confusing me with some ******* based solely on my gender.
goddamn, well put well put. yeah, same thing happened to me but i was accused of cheating numerous times when my female cousin came to hang out, she didint believe that she was my cousin and wed goto the mall cuz my cousin wanted to =\

[matt98ls1]

lookin out of state doesnt matter all guys are the same.... :cry:


thats kind of rough to generalize all guys that way..... i could make the same conclusion about girls based on the **** they've put me through in the past (cheating, lying, etc) , but what good is that going to do ? :?

just try to keep your head up and understand that there are some guys out there worth your time.

[12secondv6]

lookin out of state doesnt matter all guys are the same.... :cry:

<--- agree's w/ mat.

There ARE some nice guys out there.

You gotta look for us!

[Fasterthanyou]

Let's see... my name's Jon and I've been single for 2 years to this month. Been a ruff ride. Guys aren't all the same, some act on their thoughts while others have self-control. Some are honest and open, others are suclusive and polite all the time. Some are meatheads, others are nerds, a few of us are imbetween. Depends on compatability and if every other guy/girl you met you were compatible with we'd have the population of india in New Jersey! It's all for the best. (ending lecture mode).... Being single sucks.

[Squirrel]

<----wishes he even had time for da ladies :roll: :?

[j0n]

Well, I guess you can throw me on that list.
Broke up with my ex for the last time.


Single since Sunday. Havent been single since I was 16.

:cry: well sadly so been single now for....3 years...only im a girl (not a bachelor)

thats not what i heard :wink:

[9secfirebird]

im single. but im a ladies man ; )

[Little G]

I've been single for....well....a very long time...

[foff667]

:cry: well sadly so been single now for....3 years...only im a girl (not a bachelor)

i see this by choice though as im sure there are 100 guys hitting on you every time you step out the door...and ive seen this first hand.

[foff667]

lookin out of state doesnt matter all guys are the same.... :cry:

<--- agree's w/ mat.

There ARE some nice guys out there.

You gotta look for us!

:leghump:

[foff667]

I've been single for....well....a very long time...

this i think is your own personal doing as you crack on me because im not single and need verification on doing/buying things...most single guys can do and will do whatever they want with their money. I think I get by just fine even with the wife looking over my shoulder and for the record I've had steady girlfriends since i was 17...my wife on and off for the last 10 years.

[ProtekYoNutz]

:cry: well sadly so been single now for....3 years...only im a girl (not a bachelor)

i see this by choice though as im sure there are 100 guys hitting on you every time you step out the door...and ive seen this first hand.


WRoNg.....try again...now as for generalizing....if i meet someone i give them the benefit of the doubt and give them a chance....however....9 times outta 10....they all lie or cheat....its crazy....its not hard to be honest....ill trust you until you give me a reason not to. yeah bad **** has happened....hasnt it to everyone but imean yes it a part of the past and i try to keep it that way...eh we shall see.... i duno its kinda had to get back into the swing of things after so long....we'll see everytime i went looking...well lets just say it was all bad...so needless to say...i backed off for a while....eh things aren't that bad single...has its ups and downs

[ProtekYoNutz]

Well, I guess you can throw me on that list.
Broke up with my ex for the last time.


Single since Sunday. Havent been single since I was 16.

:cry: well sadly so been single now for....3 years...only im a girl (not a bachelor)

thats not what i heard :wink:

:?:

[BigAls87Z28]

Well, I guess you can throw me on that list.
Broke up with my ex for the last time.


Single since Sunday. Havent been single since I was 16.

:cry: well sadly so been single now for....3 years...only im a girl (not a bachelor)

thats not what i heard :wink:

:?:

double :?:

[Fasterthanyou]

Well, I guess you can throw me on that list.
Broke up with my ex for the last time.


Single since Sunday. Havent been single since I was 16.

:cry: well sadly so been single now for....3 years...only im a girl (not a bachelor)

thats not what i heard :wink:

:?:

double :?:
:?: :?: :?: (just felt like it, no reason really)

[AliWantsNss]

I am single, but like someone alot and just dont have the nerve to tell him. Ima puss.

[ProtekYoNutz]

I am single, but like someone alot and just dont have the nerve to tell him. Ima puss.

dude just go for it....the worst that could happen is him to be like sry dont like ya like that or something i mean hell i say go for it!!!!! :lol: o if he does say no.... umm just do this :nutkick:

[foff667]

I am single, but like someone alot and just dont have the nerve to tell him. Ima puss.

just pm me :lol: jk

[ProtekYoNutz]

I am single, but like someone alot and just dont have the nerve to tell him. Ima puss.

just pm me :lol: jk


bill!!!! :hammer: wife and kid.. :nono:

[superblonde]

single for two years now...crud that's long...

[superblonde]

I am single, but like someone alot and just dont have the nerve to tell him. Ima puss.

I know exactly what you mean. I'm a complete chicken. Hope you do get the nerve though.

[9secfirebird]

imalways lookin, i just dont know where i can meet any chicks.

any ideas?

oh yeah, and ladies...dont fear shootin me an IM ; ) hahahaha just kiddin

[TheWraith]

why be a chicken about it? just say it. what's the worst that can happen? someone says no. big deal.

[AliWantsNss]

why be a chicken about it? just say it. what's the worst that can happen? someone says no. big deal.
You just dont understand how much I like him. And we have a good thing going on now, Im just scared of messing it up, even though we arent "together" now. and I wish we were.

[matt98ls1]

You just dont understand how much I like him. And we have a good thing going on now, Im just scared of messing it up, even though we arent "together" now. and I wish we were.


I think I have a pretty good idea on who it is, but then again, I've never really met you or him....its just an easy thing to pick up on these boards. If you really are friends with him now and things are going well, why not just try to pursue it one step further?

oh, same guy that pulled the e-brake on you ? :lol:

[ProtekYoNutz]

You just dont understand how much I like him. And we have a good thing going on now, Im just scared of messing it up, even though we arent "together" now. and I wish we were.


I think I have a pretty good idea on who it is, but then again, I've never really met you or him....its just an easy thing to pick up on these boards. If you really are friends with him now and things are going well, why not just try to pursue it one step further?

oh, same guy that pulled the e-brake on you ? :lol:

this goes to everyone who is a lil scared

Have you ever wondered which hurts the most? Sayin something and wishing you hadn't? or saying nothing and wishing you had?...I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say. Dont be afraid to tell someone you love them. If you do, they might break your heart...if you dont YOU might break theirs. Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person? Your heart decides whom it likes and whom it doesn't. You can't tell you heart what to do. It does it on its own...when you least expect it or even when you dont want it to. Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had but that pther person was too afraid to let you? Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much...for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all. Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle? We tell lies when we are afraid... everytime we tell a lie, the things we fear grows stronger. Life is all about RISKS and it requires you to jump. Dont be a person who has to look back and wonder what they WOULD have done or COULD have had. What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye? I guess what im trying to say is that life requires risks...whether its with love or well life itself....live for the moment....take a chance...after all there is always tomorrow to start something new if things dont go rite....but you will never have to say....what if...:usa:

[enRo]

Or just take a ride on Hollywood Blvd. :rofl:

Ive been dating for a little more than 3 1/2 yrs now. Going good :) . But what u first said was the hardest part...

[ar0ck]

If theirs so many girls on this board that are single, how come the Ewing meet was so akward :lol:

[BigAls87Z28]

If theirs so many girls on this board that are single, how come the Ewing meet was so akward :lol:

Because many of you lack the balls to talk to a member of the opposite sex. Dont go all leg-hump on the girls, coughpatcough, but dont be shy.

[skorpion317]

coughpatcough

i resent that, if I'm the Pat you're talking about :lol: it's probably the other pat though.

[BigAls87Z28]

coughpatcough

i resent that, if I'm the Pat you're talking about :lol: it's probably the other pat though.

both. 8)

[skorpion317]

coughpatcough

i resent that, if I'm the Pat you're talking about :lol: it's probably the other pat though.

both. 8)

:finger:

[TheWraith]

this goes to everyone who is a lil scared

Have you ever wondered which hurts the most? Sayin something and wishing you hadn't? or saying nothing and wishing you had?...I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say. Dont be afraid to tell someone you love them. If you do, they might break your heart...if you dont YOU might break theirs. Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person? Your heart decides whom it likes and whom it doesn't. You can't tell you heart what to do. It does it on its own...when you least expect it or even when you dont want it to. Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had but that pther person was too afraid to let you? Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much...for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all. Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle? We tell lies when we are afraid... everytime we tell a lie, the things we fear grows stronger. Life is all about RISKS and it requires you to jump. Dont be a person who has to look back and wonder what they WOULD have done or COULD have had. What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye? I guess what im trying to say is that life requires risks...whether its with love or well life itself....live for the moment....take a chance...after all there is always tomorrow to start something new if things dont go rite....but you will never have to say....what if...:usa:

very well said. Not the typical comment for any woman in her early 20's though. I'm impressed if you truly practice what you preach. 8)

[AliWantsNss]

You just dont understand how much I like him. And we have a good thing going on now, Im just scared of messing it up, even though we arent "together" now. and I wish we were.


I think I have a pretty good idea on who it is, but then again, I've never really met you or him....its just an easy thing to pick up on these boards. If you really are friends with him now and things are going well, why not just try to pursue it one step further?

oh, same guy that pulled the e-brake on you ? :lol:
Actually, its not him, LOL. Its a differant guy with a differant 10 sec vette that doesnt post on these boards. I just need to get up the nerve. I mean after 4 months of whats been going on....

[AliWantsNss]

You just dont understand how much I like him. And we have a good thing going on now, Im just scared of messing it up, even though we arent "together" now. and I wish we were.


I think I have a pretty good idea on who it is, but then again, I've never really met you or him....its just an easy thing to pick up on these boards. If you really are friends with him now and things are going well, why not just try to pursue it one step further?

oh, same guy that pulled the e-brake on you ? :lol:

this goes to everyone who is a lil scared

Have you ever wondered which hurts the most? Sayin something and wishing you hadn't? or saying nothing and wishing you had?...I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say. Dont be afraid to tell someone you love them. If you do, they might break your heart...if you dont YOU might break theirs. Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person? Your heart decides whom it likes and whom it doesn't. You can't tell you heart what to do. It does it on its own...when you least expect it or even when you dont want it to. Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had but that pther person was too afraid to let you? Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much...for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all. Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle? We tell lies when we are afraid... everytime we tell a lie, the things we fear grows stronger. Life is all about RISKS and it requires you to jump. Dont be a person who has to look back and wonder what they WOULD have done or COULD have had. What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye? I guess what im trying to say is that life requires risks...whether its with love or well life itself....live for the moment....take a chance...after all there is always tomorrow to start something new if things dont go rite....but you will never have to say....what if...:usa:
I sent this exact email to him a month ago.... I guess he knows I like him...

[Tru2Chevy]

Many of you have probably read this before, but for those that haven't:

http://www.dailycollegian.com/vnews/display.v/ART/2003/11/21/3fbd76353e7dd?in_archive=1

What she doesn't know will kill you
by Matt Brochu

November 21, 2003

You met her a few months ago, and somehow she managed to seep into your subconscious like that "Suga how you get so fly" song. Just like you have no clue who the hell sings it, you don't know why she's there. But she is, whether you like it or not. You know her cell phone, her room phone. You can dial her Aunt Doreen's house in West Springfield (where she goes to do her laundry every two weeks) faster than you can peck-out 911. But she doesn't know.

Her screenname, that generic one with her first name followed by three to five random numbers or UMass, has its own category at the top of your buddy list. Not only do you know what a "Buddy Alert" is, you've rigged your computer to play "Fat Guy in a Little Coat" from "Tommy Boy" every time her screen name changes from gray to black. Then her away message comes down, and you have a decision to make. To IM or not to IM? These are the ridiculous games that you play on a daily basis. But she doesn't know.

She's it. All right, so maybe not "it" it. Not necessarily Ms. Right, but closer to Ms. Right-up-there-with-Anna-Kournikova-and-Lizzie-McGuire-on-your-list-of-people-you'd-give-anything-to-be-stranded-with-on-a-broken-down-elevator. But it's about more than that. When is it ever about more than that? Never. Not like frilly white dress, overpriced catering, embarrassing drunk in-laws more, but closer to UMass sweatpants, two D.P. Dough Roni Zonies, a futon and a movie you have no interest in seeing more. But she doesn't know.

She's gorgeous, but gorgeous is an understatement. More like you're startled every time you see her because you notice something new in a "Where's Waldo" sort of way. More like you can't stop writing third grade run-on sentences because you can't remotely begin to describe something ... someone ... so inherently amazing. But you're a writer. You can describe anything. That's what you do: pictures to words, events to words, words to even better words. But nothing seems right. More like you're afraid that if you stare at her for too long, you'll prove your parents right: that yes, your face will stick that way. But you wouldn't mind.

You wouldn't mind that the questioning, "Hello?" on the other end makes you want to smile and throw up at the same time. You wouldn't mind worrying about what to get her for her birthday and spending $300 when you only have $17.50 and a Triple-A card to your name. You wouldn't mind that she left your TV on and the blaring infomercials wake you up at 4 a.m. ... because it gives you a chance to watch her sleep. You don't mind that you've slipped up twice when you were hammered and hinted at how you feel, but she was too drunk to remember. So she doesn't know.

Sure, she's pretty, but it's about more than that. You two connect. Anything you throw at her, she can throw right back. You figured out what's going on in that predictable head of hers in under five minutes, but something tells you her heart would take about five years.

You remember everything she's ever said to you, and when that freaks her out you blame it on your photographic memory (which is a lie, you have a 2.7 GPA). You can't remember your teaching assistant's name, and you can't remember that your Puffton rent check was due four days ago, yet you remember the middle name of the kid who tripped her in fifth grade and gave her that cute little scar on her shoulder. Maybe it's because you actually listen when she talks. When do you actually listen? Never. But she doesn't know.

But she has a boyfriend. The kid is a tool, and you are not. He has no redeeming qualities, and you have about 38, even when you're hung over. You could kick his butt, and you've never been in a fight in your life. He treats her like crap, and you would treat her like the princess she believed herself to be on Halloween in 1988.

But she loves him. He wouldn't know what he had even if she slapped him across the face and dumped him, but somehow she still loves him. And somehow she still doesn't know.

Then, out of nowhere, she slaps him across the face and dumps him. She comes to you. You've been there before, so you seem like the smartest guy on earth. She cries, but your corny half-joke, half-compliment somehow gets a smile out of her that almost makes you feel ashamed that you're the only one around who gets to witness it. It looks like you might make her realize that all guys don't deserve to have rocks thrown at them.

But nothing changes. She doesn't know. You get that library elevator feeling in your stomach that she'll never know. You get that feeling that you'll be forced to write a cheesy Collegian column about her that makes "Sleepless in Seattle" look like "Girls Gone Wild."

You go to sleep. You wake up. She doesn't know. You're not in love. You're not obsessed. You blame it on the fact that you just need to get some, but still, it's about more than that. It would just be nice if once in your life, things worked out the way you wanted them to.

So ___________, it's about time you know*.

Now cut this out, fill in her name, and give it to her, coward. Just let me know how it works out.

Matt Brochu is a Collegian columnist.


- Justin

[BigAls87Z28]

That dude is crazy. Obsession isnt just a perfume.

[Tru2Chevy]

That dude is crazy. Obsession isnt just a perfume.

Heh....you should go to the website and do a search for his name....he's written a bunch of great editorials for the UMass. school paper.

- Justin

[BigAls87Z28]

I KNEW IT!! I know that guy!! I just IMed a friend back up in Mass, and I do know this kid. Not that well, but he was part of our crew when I went to Mass. He was a friend of my friends brother....follow?
Anyway, dont know much about him, but I know he would get wasted and puke every time I went up there.

And West Springfield is not the place you want to be near.....

[ProtekYoNutz]

this goes to everyone who is a lil scared

Have you ever wondered which hurts the most? Sayin something and wishing you hadn't? or saying nothing and wishing you had?...I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say. Dont be afraid to tell someone you love them. If you do, they might break your heart...if you dont YOU might break theirs. Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person? Your heart decides whom it likes and whom it doesn't. You can't tell you heart what to do. It does it on its own...when you least expect it or even when you dont want it to. Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had but that pther person was too afraid to let you? Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much...for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all. Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle? We tell lies when we are afraid... everytime we tell a lie, the things we fear grows stronger. Life is all about RISKS and it requires you to jump. Dont be a person who has to look back and wonder what they WOULD have done or COULD have had. What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye? I guess what im trying to say is that life requires risks...whether its with love or well life itself....live for the moment....take a chance...after all there is always tomorrow to start something new if things dont go rite....but you will never have to say....what if...:usa:

very well said. Not the typical comment for any woman in her early 20's though. I'm impressed if you truly practice what you preach. 8)

lol not even 20...will be 19 come january :lol: try to practice it but usually things just go bad...ehh o well still trying and smiling :D

[JL8Jeff]

Single since I bought my first Camaro. Can't afford Camaros, beer and women. :lol:

[formula4speed]

I stopped dating after this heroin addict, lying, cheating, dirty little...nevermind. But I did meet a nice girl about a year ago, been totally into her ever since and I tell her how I feel on a regular basis. I'm just a sucker for a beautiful greek chick.

[DaytonaDan]

Dated a crazy girl durin the summer, and havent talked to her in over a month because she sucks at life, last serious relationship was well over a year and a half ago...interesting thing was that she totally messed the whole thing up and just recently got back in touch with me to apologize for being a horrible girlfriend...that felt good for a few minutes... girls always seem to go for the jerks, i'm sure most of us have had this conversation at one point or another, well i have a way of explaining it...

I study psychology at rutgers and there is an experiement done on dogs (and yes this def applies to girls) where this guy Solomon had 3 groups of dogs enter a white room he was sittin in with no stimulus' available other than him and the stool he sat on, as well as the other dogs. anyways so 3 groups of lab dogs, with a few dogs in each group. what he did was for one group he gave them nothing but praise and treats. the second group he ignored completely and wouldnt even acknowledge...the third group he gave intermitted rewards... meaning he sometimes randomly gave them praise and sometimes ignored them or hit them with a newspaper...after an hour of this and a few trials, whenever he left the room the third group would follow him and would be the first group to great him when he entered for the next trial.

The moral of the experiement, it is actually more effective to be both mean and nice because when you give intermitted rewards, the animal (or girl) can't tell if you are gonna be nice or mean, so they continue to approach hoping to get the nice. My spin on this for girls that this effect applies as well as the whole mentality that they can "change the man" to change and stick around with jerks becuase they think that those rare nice qualities coming out, will happen more and more if they persist more and more...

Now i would like to try this out...but i'm too nice for it so alas, i havent had luck lately with girls :roll:

[Pat]

4 weeks today.

i've got a long way to go :(

and for the last time, i'm not a freaking leg humper. ask any girl that's actually talked to me.

[TheWraith]

lol not even 20...will be 19 come january :lol: try to practice it but usually things just go bad...ehh o well still trying and smiling :D

holy crap, i thought you were like 21ish. You're 18? :shock:

in that case if you practice what you preach, forget not typical, you're a rarity.

[JL8Jeff]

lol not even 20...will be 19 come january :lol: try to practice it but usually things just go bad...ehh o well still trying and smiling :D

holy crap, i thought you were like 21ish. You're 18? :shock:

in that case if you practice what you preach, forget not typical, you're a rarity.

18, my tv just turned 18! And my window fan is 21(it's old enough to drink legally!) and I just had my 20 year high school reunion last month! Maybe that explains the grey and white hair in my beard! Now where's my walker?? Oh there it is, right next to the bar where I left it! :lol:

[9secfirebird]

if i like someone ill tell them. and if they dont like it, im not gonna force them to.

this is gonna sound really gay and im normally not the one to say something like this, but if they dont like me back, they are just missing out on the best thing that could ever happen to them, and i know it too. she would get treated like a queen. their loss. not mine. i dont wanna be with someone that doesnt wanna be with me back, so im very open to telling someone i like them because i dont wanna not do it then find out later that they dont like me back, only makes it hurt more.

please dont bust my balls for this, im really not up to it.

[ProtekYoNutz]

lol not even 20...will be 19 come january :lol: try to practice it but usually things just go bad...ehh o well still trying and smiling :D

holy crap, i thought you were like 21ish. You're 18? :shock:

in that case if you practice what you preach, forget not typical, you're a rarity.

yes lol 18 as of now...give it 2 1/2 more months and ill be 19 altho its a pointless age...18 at least lets you do more than you could have but then there is 19 the whole last year to be a teenager :shock: eek teenage...hate that word...lets go more like young adult...then there is 20 which is well not 21 damnit!!!! Ha so yeah ....eh age is but a number...i say regardless of how old you are (given its legal of course) shouldnt matter who you date as long as you care for the person....i mean i have seen and heard LOTs of stories of people who got married and they are like 10 years apart or heck i know one of my friends parents is 16 years apart...and yet they are madly in love....its a crazy world...ehh this is my saying...

Love isn't brains it's blood
Screaming inside you to work its will
It's not something you can control...
Just something you live!
~Me

give everyone just at least one chance you never know who can catch your eye...trust someone until they give you a reason not to...most of all...keep on smiling...after all you never know who might be falling in love with your smile :D

good luck to everyone single :wink:

[ProtekYoNutz]

4 weeks today.

i've got a long way to go :(

and for the last time, i'm not a freaking leg humper. ask any girl that's actually talked to me.

o just for the record (cant believe i am saying this) Pat is NOT a :leghump: all the time.....just at first...
:wink:
o yeah pat u need to cheer up...tomorrow is another day~!

[86Transam]

it sucks being single it has been 3 and a half months for me, and my ex is a whore at college but i do not care so sign me up to.
:metoo:




Matt

[ar0ck]

Its hard going up to talk to attractive girls.

[skorpion317]

Its hard going up to talk to attractive girls.

i'll agree on this one. it's intimidating.

[TheWraith]

i wouldn't say that's necessarily true. There are two categories of attractive women. Those who know it and have swelled heads about it, and those who either don't accept it, or are humble about it and are regular people under the surface just like you and I. Once you can see the difference, it's not at all hard to talk to the "regular people" type, and the "swelled head" variety can go slip and fall in a puddle of aids anyway. And if you can't pick up the differences between the two at first, go up and talk to them anyway. I assure you you'll figure it out in about 30 seconds.

[DaytonaDan]

we should all go out and pick up girls!

[BigAls87Z28]

Im down 8) Soon as I get my dubs for my Maxx..... :lol:

As for being shy, dont be. Dont make mountains out of bumps guys, and gals.

[Midnite]

Dated a crazy girl durin the summer, and havent talked to her in over a month because she sucks at life, last serious relationship was well over a year and a half ago...interesting thing was that she totally messed the whole thing up and just recently got back in touch with me to apologize for being a horrible girlfriend...that felt good for a few minutes... girls always seem to go for the jerks, i'm sure most of us have had this conversation at one point or another, well i have a way of explaining it...

I study psychology at rutgers and there is an experiement done on dogs (and yes this def applies to girls) where this guy Solomon had 3 groups of dogs enter a white room he was sittin in with no stimulus' available other than him and the stool he sat on, as well as the other dogs. anyways so 3 groups of lab dogs, with a few dogs in each group. what he did was for one group he gave them nothing but praise and treats. the second group he ignored completely and wouldnt even acknowledge...the third group he gave intermitted rewards... meaning he sometimes randomly gave them praise and sometimes ignored them or hit them with a newspaper...after an hour of this and a few trials, whenever he left the room the third group would follow him and would be the first group to great him when he entered for the next trial.

The moral of the experiement, it is actually more effective to be both mean and nice because when you give intermitted rewards, the animal (or girl) can't tell if you are gonna be nice or mean, so they continue to approach hoping to get the nice. My spin on this for girls that this effect applies as well as the whole mentality that they can "change the man" to change and stick around with jerks becuase they think that those rare nice qualities coming out, will happen more and more if they persist more and more...

Now i would like to try this out...but i'm too nice for it so alas, i havent had luck lately with girls :roll:

Hmmm....makes me think of a guy I recently dated...interesting....it's so true though!

I've been single and dating since March after a 2 year relationship, and I absolutely love being single. I've met a lot of...um...INTERESTING...people. But seriously, I've had the best time of my life being single, so everyone, stop sounding so depressed about being single! Go out and enjoy life, meet as many people as you can, you learn a lot about life in general, and when you don't expect it, someone will come into your life. You can't wait around waiting for it to just happen cause then it never will. And for those of you that are scared to approach attractive girls, you need to get over it! What's worse, Constantly thinking about that attractive girl and then never knowing what she may think of you? or possibly getting turned down? You don't know what will happen, so give it a shot, you never know....

I live every day by this quote...
"Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here, we might as well dance" unknown, read it in an email from breast cancer survivers

Alicia

[ProtekYoNutz]

its not that being single is depressing it is just that well....you can only handle so much of something before it gets old...and after being single for soo long...ppl just need a change. No doubt that being single has advantages but then again so does being in a relationship...eh either way...you still have to get throgh the day.......just Smile and see what happens :D

[superblonde]

its not that being single is depressing it is just that well....you can only handle so much of something before it gets old...and after being single for soo long...ppl just need a change. No doubt that being single has advantages but then again so does being in a relationship...eh either way...you still have to get throgh the day.......just Smile and see what happens :D :werd: :headbang:

[ShitOnWheels]

It's very intimidating even from the female side. Last semester all I had to do was ask this guy out and I was in the clear...I knew he would say yes (my friend talked to him), but yet I was too chicken to do it. Oh well. I keep sayin "what if" to myself about it. This was why I went on the date with the 30-yr-old Turkish cook from work despite all the wrongness of the situation (working together mainly) and how nervous I was not dating someone I was friends with for a decent amount of time prior. I'm very happy I went on the date, even if we don't go on another. My confidence has gone back up after losing my 2 best friends in the past couple months.

Ok, what the hell is the point of my post? Oh yeah, just do it, you are better off being rejected than wondering "what if."

[PBodyGT87]

I disagree with the saying that all guys are jerks. and hell, some girls really suck too. there is an equal amount on both sides.

However, most of you guys who i would think are awesome never say a word to any of us girls. and finally when you do, you would be surprised at how many of us are equally as interested.

a lot of you guys on the boards here seem like you are very cool guys with a good head on your shoulders. and i've talked to some of you outside of the boards to know this. so don't ever give up. besides, if you speak out, what's the worst that could happen? Yeah, i know what it is like to have been shot down, but after all, it does have to go both ways, so if they don't feel the same, don't dwell on it, cuz they aren't worth it when it can't work. and i know being shot down sucks, but hey, sometimes you aren't and you get a chance instead. but you'll never know if you will or not if you don't act on it.

[j0n]

liz is hot! :naughty: :lol: :P

[PBodyGT87]

liz is hot! :naughty: :lol: :P

wow, thanks! haha that's a new one from you, j0n. hahaha

[j0n]

ur welcome :wink:

[Fasterthanyou]

Even if you get "rejected" it isn't bad. At least it's out of your mind.
I've had a huge crush on the girl next door to me since 1st grade. We were friends all through elementary school then she started to hang out with other people as did I. Highschool came quick and I was dating people from other schools, she was dating some older guy, needless to say, I finally confesed my love for her just to get it off my back. It didn't work out but I was ten times happier that she knew. If anything, I bet I made her day even if she didn't like me the same. That's what my friend always tells himself..., "I bet I made her day." and it's so true. We (girls and guys) exchange confidence through flirting, frustrating, but rewarding. Also what goes around comes around, trust me, just flirt and you may be suprised to get some back.
About the age thing, it doesn't matter so long as both of the individules see each other as something OTHER than a guide to life. Too often girls will date an older guy thinking he's going to show her experienced relationships... doesn't work that way folks. You can could find a person that's 20 years older than you and they're so imature it makes you're kid brother/sister look smart. Some people mature faster than others and never go into a relationship that you think of yourself as less worthy. That'll either piss the other person off or leave you broke and tired from giving so much with little return.
Okay, preacher mode off, turning colar around... sitting in for bachelor number 1. "if you were an animal which would you be and why?", I'd be a...... hehe.

[ar0ck]

Even if you get "rejected" it isn't bad. At least it's out of your mind.
I've had a huge crush on the girl next door to me since 1st grade. We were friends all through elementary school then she started to hang out with other people as did I. Highschool came quick and I was dating people from other schools, she was dating some older guy, needless to say, I finally confesed my love for her just to get it off my back. It didn't work out but I was ten times happier that she knew. If anything, I bet I made her day even if she didn't like me the same. That's what my friend always tells himself..., "I bet I made her day." and it's so true. We (girls and guys) exchange confidence through flirting, frustrating, but rewarding. Also what goes around comes around, trust me, just flirt and you may be suprised to get some back.
About the age thing, it doesn't matter so long as both of the individules see each other as something OTHER than a guide to life. Too often girls will date an older guy thinking he's going to show her experienced relationships... doesn't work that way folks. You can could find a person that's 20 years older than you and they're so imature it makes you're kid brother/sister look smart. Some people mature faster than others and never go into a relationship that you think of yourself as less worthy. That'll either piss the other person off or leave you broke and tired from giving so much with little return.
Okay, preacher mode off, turning colar around... sitting in for bachelor number 1. "if you were an animal which would you be and why?", I'd be a...... hehe.

Its very true, but after a certain period of time you dont feel confident.

Take me for example... I havent succesfully gotten a real date in months, and then you get all depressed, and totally give up for a while. Then when you want to try again, youve lost all confidence in talking to girls.

Its kinda like falling off a bike, and getting hurt real bad. Your afraid to get back on it and ride.

I still havent touched that bike in a while.

[9secfirebird]

god this thread is starting to make me depresed
haha

[Ian]

:werd:

[12secondv6]

Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all!


So, we have many single guys and ladies here.

So..... I'm surprised...... with all of these single people posting in this thread.... we can't have people hit it off???


<--- single guy looking for a nice girl

[ar0ck]

liz is hot! :naughty: :lol: :P

I second that!

[Pat]

liz is hot! :naughty: :lol: :P

:leghump:

[BigAls87Z28]

I disagree with the saying that all guys are jerks. and hell, some girls really suck too. there is an equal amount on both sides.

However, most of you guys who i would think are awesome never say a word to any of us girls. and finally when you do, you would be surprised at how many of us are equally as interested.

a lot of you guys on the boards here seem like you are very cool guys with a good head on your shoulders. and i've talked to some of you outside of the boards to know this. so don't ever give up. besides, if you speak out, what's the worst that could happen? Yeah, i know what it is like to have been shot down, but after all, it does have to go both ways, so if they don't feel the same, don't dwell on it, cuz they aren't worth it when it can't work. and i know being shot down sucks, but hey, sometimes you aren't and you get a chance instead. but you'll never know if you will or not if you don't act on it.

:rock: 8)

[12secondv6]

I disagree with the saying that all guys are jerks. and hell, some girls really suck too. there is an equal amount on both sides.

However, most of you guys who i would think are awesome never say a word to any of us girls. and finally when you do, you would be surprised at how many of us are equally as interested.

a lot of you guys on the boards here seem like you are very cool guys with a good head on your shoulders. and i've talked to some of you outside of the boards to know this. so don't ever give up. besides, if you speak out, what's the worst that could happen? Yeah, i know what it is like to have been shot down, but after all, it does have to go both ways, so if they don't feel the same, don't dwell on it, cuz they aren't worth it when it can't work. and i know being shot down sucks, but hey, sometimes you aren't and you get a chance instead. but you'll never know if you will or not if you don't act on it.

Good one..... my guess is.... you are one of our ladies??

I don't know many people..... just some of them here

[DaytonaDan]

...I've been single and dating since March after a 2 year relationship, and I absolutely love being single. I've met a lot of...um...INTERESTING...people. But seriously, I've had the best time of my life being single, so everyone, stop sounding so depressed about being single! Go out and enjoy life, meet as many people as you can, you learn a lot about life in general, and when you don't expect it, someone will come into your life. You can't wait around waiting for it to just happen cause then it never will. And for those of you that are scared to approach attractive girls, you need to get over it! What's worse, Constantly thinking about that attractive girl and then never knowing what she may think of you? or possibly getting turned down? You don't know what will happen, so give it a shot, you never know....

I live every day by this quote...
"Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here, we might as well dance" unknown, read it in an email from breast cancer survivers

Alicia

I agree, being single WAS fun for awhile, but it gets old after a year or so...although being a guy its alot harder to meet "interesting" people, i think girls have it easy (and yes i know that statement is gonna get me a lashin from every girl on the board). but seriously i'd love for a girl to ask me on a date, or initiate the conversation. who's with me on that one?

[79dizZy28]

:stupid:

[BigAls87Z28]

Ive been single for 2 weeks now...and it sucks.

[skorpion317]

Ive been single for 2 weeks now...and it sucks.

3 months for me....

[Savage_Messiah]

TECHNICALLY been single a little under a year...
REALLY been single... oh, 5 months?
Sucks rather badly...

I feel like I'm in therapy haha

[ar0ck]

:soapbox: :stfu:

you and you 2 months... 1 week whatever

Exactly 1 whole year & a week, with absolutely no action what so ever.

[j0n]

well unfortunately i have joined the ranks of the bachelors of njfboa...cuz i went 2 the race track last night :lol:

[PBodyGT87]

I disagree with the saying that all guys are jerks. and hell, some girls really suck too. there is an equal amount on both sides.

However, most of you guys who i would think are awesome never say a word to any of us girls. and finally when you do, you would be surprised at how many of us are equally as interested.

a lot of you guys on the boards here seem like you are very cool guys with a good head on your shoulders. and i've talked to some of you outside of the boards to know this. so don't ever give up. besides, if you speak out, what's the worst that could happen? Yeah, i know what it is like to have been shot down, but after all, it does have to go both ways, so if they don't feel the same, don't dwell on it, cuz they aren't worth it when it can't work. and i know being shot down sucks, but hey, sometimes you aren't and you get a chance instead. but you'll never know if you will or not if you don't act on it.

Good one..... my guess is.... you are one of our ladies??

I don't know many people..... just some of them here

yeah, I would be one of njfboa's 19 year old lades. However, i'm no longer single, since sept 25th. but believe me i was single for a LOOOOOOOONG time before that. had a few of those "we're just 'together' " relationships, and believe me, they all went downhill fast.

*lesson* Avoid Prolific Saxophone playing Russians, and then avoid the Prolific Saxaphone playing Russian's band's drummer.

[Tru2Chevy]

well unfortunately i have joined the ranks of the bachelors of njfboa...cuz i went 2 the race track last night :lol:

Wow - that's pretty sad. If she can't deal with occaisonal track outings, she wasn't gonna last anyway though......

- Justin

[j0n]

yea thats true...still sucks major ass though :(

[PBodyGT87]

well unfortunately i have joined the ranks of the bachelors of njfboa...cuz i went 2 the race track last night :lol:

she just wasn't good enough for you was she?!?! you had to skip out on her and go to the track instead!!!?!?


...Adda boy!! You're damn right! because after all, here are some reasons why your car can be more important than your human counterpart:

You tend to spend more money on your car than you do for human companions.

You're car takes you everywhere you need to go so that you don't have to walk, no questions asked.

You always take care of it when it's sick, and you never have to worry about catching what it's got.

Your car has come closer to your butt than your human counterpart ever has, not only more times, but for longer periods of time, at a time.

No matter how many times it fails you, you can't stay mad at it, (Unless you drive a mustang, it which case, you had what was coming to you. Sell that hunk of junk to some fool and then let them worry about it)

Your relationship with your car is probably one of the longest pre-marital relationships you will ever have.

Most people tend to hang on to beloved cars even after they have died. Do you keep your deceased in your driveway? I know I don't!

No matter how ugly it is, you still love it for what it's worth. And you don't even need to have had a few beers to think so.

When was the last time you washed your car? When was the last time you washed your counterpart? (Don't answer that last one unless it is a "never", please, for my sanity's sake)

You can have as many as you can afford at once, and none of them get jealous. And you don't even live in India!

Unlike the limited shades of brown and tan that humans come in, with cars you have the options of colors like Medium Maui Blue with Metal Flake. Ain't she pretty?

And Lastly, You have traveled many a road with your car, and you plan that the journey shall continue for ever after, until either you die, or your car dies, in which case, you will hang on to it for as long as you can accomodate it. And you may always bring it back from the dead.

[j0n]

:kneeslap: well done me likey

[SpeakersGoBoom]

Even if you get "rejected" it isn't bad. At least it's out of your mind.
I've had a huge crush on the girl next door to me since 1st grade. We were friends all through elementary school then she started to hang out with other people as did I. Highschool came quick and I was dating people from other schools, she was dating some older guy, needless to say, I finally confesed my love for her just to get it off my back. It didn't work out but I was ten times happier that she knew. If anything, I bet I made her day even if she didn't like me the same. That's what my friend always tells himself..., "I bet I made her day." and it's so true. We (girls and guys) exchange confidence through flirting, frustrating, but rewarding. Also what goes around comes around, trust me, just flirt and you may be suprised to get some back.
About the age thing, it doesn't matter so long as both of the individules see each other as something OTHER than a guide to life. Too often girls will date an older guy thinking he's going to show her experienced relationships... doesn't work that way folks. You can could find a person that's 20 years older than you and they're so imature it makes you're kid brother/sister look smart. Some people mature faster than others and never go into a relationship that you think of yourself as less worthy. That'll either piss the other person off or leave you broke and tired from giving so much with little return.
Okay, preacher mode off, turning colar around... sitting in for bachelor number 1. "if you were an animal which would you be and why?", I'd be a...... hehe.

Its very true, but after a certain period of time you dont feel confident.

Take me for example... I havent succesfully gotten a real date in months, and then you get all depressed, and totally give up for a while. Then when you want to try again, youve lost all confidence in talking to girls.

Its kinda like falling off a bike, and getting hurt real bad. Your afraid to get back on it and ride.

I still havent touched that bike in a while.

Look at it this way...
If you go up to her, and she likes you, you gained.
If you go up to her, and she doenst like you, you haven't gained, but you havent lost either.

Going up to someone is like playing a lottery ticket that someone gave you. If you win, you win. If you loose, you didnt loose.

If that makes any sense.

[79dizZy28]

Look at it this way...
If you go up to her, and she likes you, you gained.
If you go up to her, and she doenst like you, you haven't gained, but you havent lost either.

Going up to someone is like playing a lottery ticket that someone gave you. If you win, you win. If you loose, you didnt loose.

If that makes any sense.

never thought of it that way, but i'll be thinkin of it that way from now on... :D

[Fasterthanyou]

well unfortunately i have joined the ranks of the bachelors of njfboa...cuz i went 2 the race track last night :lol:
That's rather sad to think that she wouldn't understand. For crying out loud, did you at least invite her?
Women that don't understand that you need FRIENDS to stay sain are wako's. Trust me, they are SCARY crazy. I can't tell you how many of my friends have no friends because of a crazy life sucking b*tch of a girlfriend that would make them feel bad for going out once a week with a group of friends. I've only saved 1 of my friends from said life ruining relationships. It was back in highschool when my best friend started dating a girl we all knew. We always said hi to her but she would never talk. She just was SO shy. She latched onto him like a life preserver that we couldn't go anywhere without her. Me and a bunch of friends pulled him aside and had to tell him to choose between her and us. We where is 2 best friends and it was enough to get him to dump her. She was so attached to him that when he went away to college she transfered to a school 5 minutes away from his (Rochester Univ.). He's now living a normal life with friends,family, and a girlfriend while the bitch has gotten married and had a kit already.
Moral of the story; if you're young, relationships need to be flexible. If a girl makes you decide between friends or her, drop her like a bad habit. If she can't stand your friends how do you think she'll stand YOU in the long run?

[LS1LT1]

Single and LOVING IT! :lol:


But then again:

this goes to everyone who is a lil scared
Have you ever wondered which hurts the most? Sayin something and wishing you hadn't? or saying nothing and wishing you had?...I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say. Dont be afraid to tell someone you love them. If you do, they might break your heart...if you dont YOU might break theirs. Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person? Your heart decides whom it likes and whom it doesn't. You can't tell you heart what to do. It does it on its own...when you least expect it or even when you dont want it to. Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had but that pther person was too afraid to let you? Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much...for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all. Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle? We tell lies when we are afraid... everytime we tell a lie, the things we fear grows stronger. Life is all about RISKS and it requires you to jump. Dont be a person who has to look back and wonder what they WOULD have done or COULD have had. What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye? I guess what im trying to say is that life requires risks...whether its with love or well life itself....live for the moment....take a chance...after all there is always tomorrow to start something new if things dont go rite....but you will never have to say....what if...:usa:Ok then, I'm taking your advice so I won't have to live with the regret of having not said anything....Kelly, even though we've only met once and I'm umm, quite a bit older than you, will you go out with me? :? :D :wink:
Especially considering your openmindedness on age differences and all:
eh age is but a number...i say regardless of how old you are (given its legal of course) shouldnt matter who you date as long as you care for the person....i mean i have seen and heard LOTs of stories of people who got married and they are like 10 years apart or heck i know one of my friends parents is 16 years apart...and yet they are madly in love....its a crazy world... :wink: :wink:

[Tru2Chevy]

Unlike the limited shades of brown and tan that humans come in, with cars you have the options of colors like Medium Maui Blue with Metal Flake. Ain't she pretty?

Ahh....Medium Maui Blue :D

- Justin

[ProtekYoNutz]

Single and LOVING IT! :lol:


But then again:

this goes to everyone who is a lil scared
Have you ever wondered which hurts the most? Sayin something and wishing you hadn't? or saying nothing and wishing you had?...I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say. Dont be afraid to tell someone you love them. If you do, they might break your heart...if you dont YOU might break theirs. Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person? Your heart decides whom it likes and whom it doesn't. You can't tell you heart what to do. It does it on its own...when you least expect it or even when you dont want it to. Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had but that pther person was too afraid to let you? Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much...for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all. Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle? We tell lies when we are afraid... everytime we tell a lie, the things we fear grows stronger. Life is all about RISKS and it requires you to jump. Dont be a person who has to look back and wonder what they WOULD have done or COULD have had. What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye? I guess what im trying to say is that life requires risks...whether its with love or well life itself....live for the moment....take a chance...after all there is always tomorrow to start something new if things dont go rite....but you will never have to say....what if...:usa:Ok then, I'm taking your advice so I won't have to live with the regret of having not said anything....Kelly, even though we've only met once and I'm umm, quite a bit older than you, will you go out with me? :? :D :wink:
Especially considering your openmindedness on age differences and all:
eh age is but a number...i say regardless of how old you are (given its legal of course) shouldnt matter who you date as long as you care for the person....i mean i have seen and heard LOTs of stories of people who got married and they are like 10 years apart or heck i know one of my friends parents is 16 years apart...and yet they are madly in love....its a crazy world... :wink: :wink:


i forget who u r exactly :oops: its hard to keep faces and names straight

[Midnite]

...I've been single and dating since March after a 2 year relationship, and I absolutely love being single. I've met a lot of...um...INTERESTING...people. But seriously, I've had the best time of my life being single, so everyone, stop sounding so depressed about being single! Go out and enjoy life, meet as many people as you can, you learn a lot about life in general, and when you don't expect it, someone will come into your life. You can't wait around waiting for it to just happen cause then it never will. And for those of you that are scared to approach attractive girls, you need to get over it! What's worse, Constantly thinking about that attractive girl and then never knowing what she may think of you? or possibly getting turned down? You don't know what will happen, so give it a shot, you never know....

I live every day by this quote...
"Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here, we might as well dance" unknown, read it in an email from breast cancer survivers

Alicia

I agree, being single WAS fun for awhile, but it gets old after a year or so...although being a guy its alot harder to meet "interesting" people, i think girls have it easy (and yes i know that statement is gonna get me a lashin from every girl on the board). but seriously i'd love for a girl to ask me on a date, or initiate the conversation. who's with me on that one?

I definitely agree that girls have it easier when meeting people, especially at bars/clubs and other social events. And I would have to agree with what someone said earlier about how girls suck. I seriously think that girls are worse then guys these days. Yep, I'm a 22 yr old female and I admit it!

Alicia

[formula4speed]

You know guys you're all tired of being single and there are all these girls here into f-bodies, you know, hint hint...










:lol:

[9secfirebird]

ahhh id only be interested in em if they wanted to help me build hot motors and work on cars and stuff....oh yeah, long walks on the beach and cuddling infront of a winter fire ; ) hahaha....but im sure none of them are into that stuff haha

and if any might be into that....you can reach me on aol

haha

[LS1LT1]

i forget who u r exactly :oops: its hard to keep faces and names straight
I'm Marc, met you at Fuddrucker's that one time, the guy on the crutches, woke you up while you were trying to sleep in the driver's seat of the red TA. That's me. :wavey: :D

[PBodyGT87]

ahhh id only be interested in em if they wanted to help me build hot motors and work on cars and stuff....oh yeah, long walks on the beach and cuddling infront of a winter fire ; ) hahaha....but im sure none of them are into that stuff haha

and if any might be into that....you can reach me on aol

haha


hey i am into all that. see? it's possible. ah **** but i am not single. damn.

[Pat]

ahhh id only be interested in em if they wanted to help me build hot motors and work on cars and stuff....oh yeah, long walks on the beach and cuddling infront of a winter fire ; ) hahaha....but im sure none of them are into that stuff haha

and if any might be into that....you can reach me on aol

haha


hey i am into all that. see? it's possible. ah **** but i am not single. damn.

**** dude, don't worry about her - she gave me the same lame ass excuse :roll:

[matt98ls1]

You know guys you're all tired of being single and there are all these girls here into f-bodies, you know, hint hint...
:lol:



haha yep... I think we've reached that point where everyone should post a picture of themselves, and see what develops from that... :oops:


but then again, that might turn into one giant leg-humping thread with 20 guys going after about 4-5 girls... :lol:

[BigAls87Z28]

You know guys you're all tired of being single and there are all these girls here into f-bodies, you know, hint hint...
:lol:



haha yep... I think we've reached that point where everyone should post a picture of themselves, and see what develops from that... Â* :oops: Â*


but then again, that might turn into one giant leg-humping thread with 20 guys going after about 4-5 girls... :lol:

Picture thread....that would lead to a giant leg humping thread you say?
Hrm...


http://www.njfboa.org/forums/viewtopic.php?t=370

[ShitOnWheels]

Ya, pic thread has been done before. Â*That pic I posted now pisses me off :( Â*Only good pic I have of me tho...unless you count my senior pictures from HS which are well over 4 years old now...

[matt98ls1]

Picture thread....that would lead to a giant leg humping thread you say? Â*
Hrm...http://www.njfboa.org/forums/viewtopic.php?t=370


Haha whoops.... I gotta start searching more before I post :banghead:

[Tru2Chevy]

Ya, pic thread has been done before. Â*That pic I posted now pisses me off :( Â*Only good pic I have of me tho...unless you count my senior pictures from HS which are well over 4 years old now...

Not that you really look any different......

- Justin

[PBodyGT87]

ahhh id only be interested in em if they wanted to help me build hot motors and work on cars and stuff....oh yeah, long walks on the beach and cuddling infront of a winter fire ; ) hahaha....but im sure none of them are into that stuff haha

and if any might be into that....you can reach me on aol

haha


hey i am into all that. see? it's possible. ah **** but i am not single. damn.

**** dude, don't worry about her - she gave me the same lame ass excuse Â*:roll:

that's not an excuse, it's the truth.

[ShitOnWheels]

Ya, pic thread has been done before. Â*That pic I posted now pisses me off :( Â*Only good pic I have of me tho...unless you count my senior pictures from HS which are well over 4 years old now...

Not that you really look any different......

- Justin
So true. I was lookin at pics the other night in my family room...holy **** I haven't changed since I was like 2. Not sure if that's a good thing or not, lol.

[9secfirebird]

well PBodyGT87, when you are single....im first in line!


mike :wink:

[DaytonaDan]

I definitely agree that girls have it easier when meeting people, especially at bars/clubs and other social events. And I would have to agree with what someone said earlier about how girls suck. I seriously think that girls are worse then guys these days. Yep, I'm a 22 yr old female and I admit it!

Alicia


Good, now convince my exs to agree with you, :lol:

I think i need lessons on proper bar/club etiquette to going up to girls and what exactly you're supposed to do,if i went up to a girl, my luck seems to be go up to a girl, her boyfriend is a few feet away

[Midnite]

I definitely agree that girls have it easier when meeting people, especially at bars/clubs and other social events. Â*And I would have to agree with what someone said earlier about how girls suck. Â*I seriously think that girls are worse then guys these days. Â*Yep, I'm a 22 yr old female and I admit it!

Alicia


Good, now convince my exs to agree with you, Â*:lol: Â*

I think i need lessons on proper bar/club etiquette to going up to girls and what exactly you're supposed to do,if i went up to a girl, my luck seems to be go up to a girl, her boyfriend is a few feet away

OK, this is what I have learned tonight.....there is NO proper way to go up to a girl at a bar/club. Either the girl is interested in you or she's not. It doesn't matter what the guy says or does to initiate conversation, so don't freak out to much about what your first impression will be when going up to someone at a bar/cub. The first impression was already made when a girl looked at you, and when she did, she already decided whether or not she would talk to you if you possibly came up to her. AND, if you go up to her and she wants to talk to you, then whatever you do, don't act too shy! AND, if she ignores you or answers your questions very short and looks around on how to find the best route to get away from you without making you feel bad, then just walk away before the situation gets worse.

[BigAls87Z28]

I definitely agree that girls have it easier when meeting people, especially at bars/clubs and other social events. Â*And I would have to agree with what someone said earlier about how girls suck. Â*I seriously think that girls are worse then guys these days. Â*Yep, I'm a 22 yr old female and I admit it!

Alicia


Good, now convince my exs to agree with you, Â*:lol: Â*

I think i need lessons on proper bar/club etiquette to going up to girls and what exactly you're supposed to do,if i went up to a girl, my luck seems to be go up to a girl, her boyfriend is a few feet away

OK, this is what I have learned tonight.....there is NO proper way to go up to a girl at a bar/club. Â*Either the girl is interested in you or she's not. Â*It doesn't matter what the guy says or does to initiate conversation, so don't freak out to much about what your first impression will be when going up to someone at a bar/cub. Â*The first impression was already made when a girl looked at you, and when she did, she already decided whether or not she would talk to you if you possibly came up to her. Â*AND, if you go up to her and she wants to talk to you, then whatever you do, don't act too shy! Â*AND, if she ignores you or answers your questions very short and looks around on how to find the best route to get away from you without making you feel bad, then just walk away before the situation gets worse.

Hrmmmm.....good advise from the other side. Could come in handy later on.

[superblonde]

Wow, the things I miss when I don't check the boards every day. I feel like I'm watching an episode of Dr. Phil.

[skorpion317]

workin on being a non-bachelor :D

[ar0ck]

I forgot to add...

When people ask me why I spend so much money on my cars I just respond, because I dont have a girlfriend to spend my money on.

:lol:

[PBodyGT87]

well PBodyGT87, when you are single....im first in line!


mike :wink:


sweeeeet. haha.

[DaytonaDan]

OK, this is what I have learned tonight.....there is NO proper way to go up to a girl at a bar/club. Â*Either the girl is interested in you or she's not. Â*It doesn't matter what the guy says or does to initiate conversation, so don't freak out to much about what your first impression will be when going up to someone at a bar/cub. Â*The first impression was already made when a girl looked at you, and when she did, she already decided whether or not she would talk to you if you possibly came up to her. Â*AND, if you go up to her and she wants to talk to you, then whatever you do, don't act too shy! Â*AND, if she ignores you or answers your questions very short and looks around on how to find the best route to get away from you without making you feel bad, then just walk away before the situation gets worse.

Thanks for the advice, I can definately read girls fine, but I never have the balls to go up to them...i guess i should work on that

[skorpion317]

<------------- no longer a bachelor as of 11/22/04 :D

[j0n]

congratulations! now someone find me a chick that will put up with me and likes cars

[Savage_Messiah]

<------------- no longer a bachelor as of 11/22/04 :D
Watch out for those stang drivers man.... :D j/k, congrats

[Ian]

<------------- no longer a bachelor as of 11/22/04 :D

So who is he? :lol:

[ar0ck]

<------------- no longer a bachelor as of 11/22/04 :D

So who is he? :lol:

Jeanie Marie She drives a black wusstang :twisted:

She felt offly outnumbered at pats house, when their were 4 F-Bodies in his driveway :clown:

[skorpion317]

yeah, she was outnumbered....but she can deal with it. i'll try to bring her back from the dark side :D

[ProtekYoNutz]

Congrats dude!

[Savage_Messiah]

hehe, yea it was like "eh? a muskrat, this the right place?" :lol: j/k