Originally Posted by oh one ls1 SS

nah i ment if u look at a girl.. what do u notice first? ur there ugly ur not really gunna wanna go up to them to see if they have a good personality

Originally Posted by BigDaddyKane

I guess there is an extent in the looks department upon attraction. But in my case, what im trying to say is, for example, she can be smoking hot, and I may be attracted to the looks at first, but if she's got the personality of a wet mop, then Im not attracted at all. I dont wanna come home from work... everyday... and do the same exact routine... everyday. I am just more interested in their personality.

Originally Posted by BonzoHansen

Here is the thing...if they only date a-holes, and they date you, does that make you an a-hole? And if so, is that what you want to be?

Originally Posted by Rich189

eventually u meet the right one.... im the nice guy too and i have an amazing girlfriend :} u guys gotta find the unspoiled girls spoiled girls always want what they cant ever really have hence the ******** the unspoiled girls look for the guy thats gonna treat them right its just hard as hell to find a girl like that.... least thats my opinion

Originally Posted by 12secondv6

It isn't easy.

Also, you must factor in the age of the people involved.

Seems like people want a challenge.... they want to be the one who reformed the bad ass.... made them kick their habits.... made the ******* a nice guy etc.

Personally... I REFUSED to become an ******* just to find a girl.

If you look, you will not find her.... she is out there..... probably right in front of you.... once you stop looking then you will find the one

Originally Posted by jimmyboy8301

I've seen a lot of girls around with scumbag guys lately, (you all know the type). My ex is also now dating a scumbag that works at hess