Now she kinda wont leave me alone :(

ignore her dude. shes f***ing with your head

Lemme guess shes randomly txting/calling you seeing whats up, dont talk to her, cause she will f*** with you, my ex would call or txt me up to tell me about this guy she was with, or how this guy was good in bed, im not saying shell say that, but if they know your upset and easy to get upset, they'll try.

not to get off topic, but wayfast, I just looked at your cardomain. your firebird used to have white walls and wire rims!! dude, what a complete turn around for that car, nice work bro.

bro cut your loses while your ahead.... she will do nuthing but bring you down, take your money, and get you arrested for some bs..... the only advice that i can give is cut all loses while your ahead... and its not meant to be.... you tried to help and nothing was a result....so your a good guy for doing what you tried to do so far....

seen alot of this stuff...

i just got out of a long relationship where all of a sudden my chick started acting all goofy and messed up..... im 27 and my advice is FORGET it and let it go and move on. I immerse myself hanging out with friends, working on the car, etc. youll be amazed at how much car **** you can get done when theres no woman with head issues in your life!!

not to mention how much more money is in your pocket lol

alright matt :rollseye:

I've seen girls I care about turn into scumbags like that too and you try to help and it just doesn't work.The problem is you can only help someone if they truly want to change if they've decided to be a scum bag thats what there gonna do.It really sucks but there's a point where you have to realize there's nothing you can do and move on.

DON"T MAKE ME DO IT!!!!!!!! I got the image link saved.....anyway...just Ignore her dude shes playing games with you...just let her go

wayfast, been there before too. worst thing to do is have her texting you all the time. was there before, she just "wanted to be friends" so i would still talk to her. she just messed with me and all it did was make the healing process longer. towards the end of me talking to her, the only time she would call me is when she needed something done on her car. screw it man, if they see that you still care about them after they leave, they will just mess with you more. its hard, but try to take a break from talking to her at all to get your head strait. and we have all been there before. everyone goes through this stuff. its not fun but its part of life

lead by example. don't appear to be condescending, be a friend. give advice. don't let her go astray. there is a saying, "once a good girl's gone bad, she's gone forever" this isn't to be taken literally of course, but its harder for girls to regain innocence and a reputation than a dude. stay with her dude, and don't listen to those careless jerks that tell you to walk away. true friends would never do that

Well, she wouldnt leave me alone, and she was convinced that i should give her a chance, I said fine, when ever your ready, then i said GTG, logged off, I came back on 2 or 3 hours later and blocked all her aim's and phone numbers. I realized its the time to get over it, and I cant talk to her, while getting over it.

Yeah man, way to go, your a hella stronger then I was, I catered to my first ex's every needs until I finally met my just became ex lol, thats the best route.

its ok to still want to help her but as girlfriend material i would look elswhere.
crazy is as crazy does

Your young bro, this is just the start of girls screwing you over throughout life lol. Wait till after high school until you try and find a serious girlfriend. The high school years are full of cheating/stupid broads, so don't hang your head on it. Over time it'll come eventually, my current girlfriend was a close friend for 3 years before i realized something so good was right under my nose.

Thanks for the input guys! How ever the tables have turned, I was being all right and moving on, When her cousin aimed me and told me, that my ex "NEEDED" to talk. I talked to her for a bit, and my ex said she was wrong and that she realized i was nicer, kinder and better then any one else. I said I was moving on and she said i shouldn't, she wants to go out now, and Idk what to do, she says she loves me, but i kinda love her, I just don't truly know because of all the situations shes put me in.

...the skeptical person might think she is saying what she thinks you want to hear...

turn and walk away. its rough but too little too late.

I turned my back on the last girl i was dating, it wasnt easy. Now i have met an awesome girl(with the same name, go figure) However, i dont think i can let it happen or let it go anywhere because the timing now for me is just bad since i'l be leaving in a month and most likely never living in NJ again.

Did you hold that against here, even briefly? For 2 months I hated all women with the same name as an ex of mine. LOL.

well they came to one gathering i had, we all started playing beer pong, i threw a ball at her sisters face and then later in the night i asked them their names, when she said it, i said "i hate that name". Now several days later, when i think of the name, i think of her, not the old one, so its all good now. lol

screw her dude, she made you feel like crap now she "needs" you, this sounds like she needs a rebound guy..she is happy then she feels like crap and starts to feel she needs someone so she jumps to her comfort zone, a.k.a you. just keep walking away

lol, i went out with some chick named kayla and when we broke up i just hated her because she treated me like a ***** and every day when i took the bus to school i had to pass a street named "Kay la". it always pissed me off in the morning then i finally got over it:rofl:

FTMFW!!!!

X2. Doris was her name.