ok guys, the poor man has apologized like 4 times, for the love of god please drop it. this is not the first time text has failed to communicate tru intention. flip technology the bird and move on.

back to the original topic:

diva had it right IMHO. i've had similiar experiences dating someone 3+ years younger than myself and diva's right, if she's not WELL beyond her years in terms of maturity and interests, there's going to come a point where u will become alittle frustrated with her age. even beyond that, ur individual worlds are much different because of the age difference. for me it was things like all of my friends would be going to a bar, club, or casino and i would then be faced with the choice of hangin with them or her as she was not old enough to get into those places. then of course there's the consideration of that if u were to be partying with her friends, alcohol is present, party gets busted and ur the only one 21+....guess who's going to jail. last but certainly not least, if the 'rents ever walk in on something no parent should ever see, it will be completely up to them whether or not u remain a free man.

certianly no easy answers any time ur dealin with the womenfolk but it's even tougher when u have SO many variables. whatever u decide bro, good luck.

As you get older, age matters less.. but in late teens and early 20s it seems to matter a lot.. I dated someone 2 years younger from 16-21, and a lot of times the age difference was excruciating.. now at 24 i'm with someone 6 years older and mostly its a non-issue.. like i said, age differences seem to fade with time i guess.

Grats to her! My Wife double majored in English and History at Rutgers in 4 years. Hard work but it paid off nicely being she can teach either or both now.

i'm getting a doctorate in 6 :shrug:

JM ROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLZ!!!:nod:

don't worry, once yer in the marines will teach you how to avoid stepping on any more land mines in the future. lol