your username is???

edit: i own page 4

haha nice!...yeah its kinda funny... :lol:

anyone who wears an ass doughnut on their head is a superhero in my book :wink:

Well in that case, I am going to have to devise my superhero name and have a side kick.
Also, I must not forget that no superhero is complete without a theme song... :banana: :typeR: :rock: :headbang: :pimp: :popcorn:

lol wow we all r some special ppl :D

i get plenty :roll:

who said i wanted any from you anyway

thems fightin words in my neighborhood...I jest... :banana:

lol, we are only kidding with you, Pat. Well, at least I am.

dont listen to pat for girl advice, only once did i get good advice from him and it was this.... "tell her to go jump off a bridge"

whoa serious hijackage...

on a lighter note, the kids formed by that couple would have some serious mental damage :D

lol...yes not only would these imaginary children ride the short bus, but these window-lickers would own a whole fleet of them.
*tears of pride form*--I'm so dang proud of my hypothetical special children with mental damage.
Hey Tim, time for the caution tape helmet!!!! :fluffy:

I'm a proud parent of the short bus kids. :wink:

these kids would need to be put on leashes and wear hockey helmets to school...and once there they'd need to be strapped into their seats to prevent them from just slipping out of them in a puddle of their own drool :lol:

hey now, be nice to my hypothetical retarded children. they are the apples of my eyes... :lol:

Could we supply the kids with their very own superhero ass doughnuts :lol:

Excellent!!!! :lol:

just keep reminding yourself that i'm married, and hopefully you'll get over me. :rofl:

*mopes around with broken heartedness* Alas, I will try, for I will be strong. Cry, cry, tear, tear, sadness.

:cry: :gay:

dont be sad well go play with out hockey helmet wearing, ass doughnut using, drooling, shortbus riding kids in a lil bit. they always make my day better. :lol:

i know :wink:

that's completely BS. who was the one who kept you in all your crappy relationships longer than they were meant to last?! ME!!!

and you're wrong, i said to tell her to jump off a building, not a bridge. and i was right on with that one...

and you KNOW i'm right about the princeton chick...

Touche, it was a building, and thanks for reminding me that ur a jerk...now pat is down to two friends :lol:

Oh, and princeton chics are gonna support me when i get old, everyone knows if a girl goes to princeton she has to either be well off before hand or is going to be loaded starting a career...trouphy husband sounds good to everyone else right? Especially if you want expensive hobbies :D

it would help if you knew how to spell "trophy"

aw, now that's just ****ed up...

Re: I am seriously depressed (girl problems)
 

here comes the honesty, the answer you didn't want to hear.

this girl has problems. she is not the girl you knew, or she hid her capacity to be a psycho from you. someone who throws the above in a public profile has some serious issues. also, the fact that she did this and didn't talk with you about it shows the propensity for issues. you are better off with out her. and it's much better that it happened now than 5 years down the road when you are standing at the alter waiting for her and she never shows up.

love is a strange thing. i've only been in love three times in my life, yet the number of women i have been with is in the three digits. i can't say i used those women (sometimes i was used, though :() but i was searching for 'the one'. i either had very bad luck during my search or i missed one or two along the way. nothing heals a broken heart - time will only lessen the pain. you will always have a special place in your heart for this girl, as much as you dislike her right now.

i don't look at it as she rejected you, more like she's got some soul-searching to do herself. it's more her than it is you, and i would not take this to heart (as it appears you are doing/have done). you cannot simply shrug off a year and a half, but, with time, it will feel better. always look for the positive side of things - especially in situations like this. you are now free to continue the search, have a kick ass time with your buds, throw yourself into your car or your job or something else that you enjoy doing. you now have what most of us would kill for: time. use it wisely, not in despair because this girl moved on in one of the most despicable ways one could.

oh, and you are not alone. the number of replies to your posting should show you that (despite the hijackage). keep your chin up. :wink:

i have a livejournal account, so I took some time to write down what had happened and how I felt. the link was in my AIM profile. she looked at it, and this was the comment she left (she didn't put her name down, but it was too obvious that it was her anyway):

"Sorry to add to your hell but I must say that I cannot help but laugh after reading your pitiful assessment of your tragic hell. From knowing both sides of the story, you can't try to glorify yourself that you have done nothing wrong! 1) Her current "hook-up" is really her current boyfriend, who may I add makes her extremely happy. I know it's hard but if you truly care about someone you want to see them happy no matter what the circumstances may see fit. But no, you seem to think that just because you have a history you are better for her so you walz back trying to reclaim what you think is yours, but you can't take friendship into consideration. Showing up at her work, the constant phone calls and I love you... BULL!!!!!!!!!!!2) If I'm not mistaken I believe there was another girl trying to come between you and your ex while you were still going out with her- and you let her in the picture... tossing your now ex g/f out the window like yesterday's trash... I hate to break it to you but you're not the victim here. 3) after all is said in done you still wonder why things arent going in your favor, well lets recap 1 and 2 and we come to the conclusion that you never realized what an amazing person you had til she was gone! And now because of your selfish acts, you will always wonder about what could've been! Have a nice life! =)"

to which i replied:

"I never said I didn't do anything wrong. I realized my mistakes, and I tried to make it up.

But you don't care. You only wanted to make me feel as bad as you did. And I can see that now.

You don't seem so "amazing" to me now, after I realize how little you care about me. You're also a coward, you couldn't even put your own name down because you're too embarassed by the way you acted, XXXX."

i called her out by name on my journal, but i won't put her name here, hence the XXXX.

I then added a new entry to my journal:

"I didn't think it could get any worse. And yet it has.

I was lied to. My ex never cared about how I felt. She only wanted to see me suffer for the way I behaved 5 months ago. I was already sorry for what I had done, but apparently she thought that wasn't enough.

She has become one of the most selfish and immature people I have ever met. I wonder why I didn't see that before. And because she has turned into this person, I realize I was wrong to have tried to make it up to her. She is no better than I was 5 months ago. Someone who treated me this way doesn't deserve my love and affection. Someone who treated me this way doesn't even deserve my friendship."

I also IM'ed her, saying most of the stuff that appears in that entry. i told her until she grows up and apologizes to me, we cannot be friends. She will see those IM's when she gets back from cheerleading practice (which should be in a half-hour or so) and I am sure she will be itchin for a fight. I'll let everyone know how it turns out.