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SpeakersGoBoom 11-18-2004 12:36 PM
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Originally Posted by TransAm4Life
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Originally Posted by Fasterthanyou
Even if you get "rejected" it isn't bad. At least it's out of your mind.
I've had a huge crush on the girl next door to me since 1st grade. We were friends all through elementary school then she started to hang out with other people as did I. Highschool came quick and I was dating people from other schools, she was dating some older guy, needless to say, I finally confesed my love for her just to get it off my back. It didn't work out but I was ten times happier that she knew. If anything, I bet I made her day even if she didn't like me the same. That's what my friend always tells himself..., "I bet I made her day." and it's so true. We (girls and guys) exchange confidence through flirting, frustrating, but rewarding. Also what goes around comes around, trust me, just flirt and you may be suprised to get some back.
About the age thing, it doesn't matter so long as both of the individules see each other as something OTHER than a guide to life. Too often girls will date an older guy thinking he's going to show her experienced relationships... doesn't work that way folks. You can could find a person that's 20 years older than you and they're so imature it makes you're kid brother/sister look smart. Some people mature faster than others and never go into a relationship that you think of yourself as less worthy. That'll either piss the other person off or leave you broke and tired from giving so much with little return.
Okay, preacher mode off, turning colar around... sitting in for bachelor number 1. "if you were an animal which would you be and why?", I'd be a...... hehe.
Its very true, but after a certain period of time you dont feel confident.

Take me for example... I havent succesfully gotten a real date in months, and then you get all depressed, and totally give up for a while. Then when you want to try again, youve lost all confidence in talking to girls.

Its kinda like falling off a bike, and getting hurt real bad. Your afraid to get back on it and ride.

I still havent touched that bike in a while.
Look at it this way...
If you go up to her, and she likes you, you gained.
If you go up to her, and she doenst like you, you haven't gained, but you havent lost either.

Going up to someone is like playing a lottery ticket that someone gave you. If you win, you win. If you loose, you didnt loose.

If that makes any sense.

79dizZy28 11-18-2004 02:45 PM
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Originally Posted by SpeakersGoBoom
Look at it this way...
If you go up to her, and she likes you, you gained.
If you go up to her, and she doenst like you, you haven't gained, but you havent lost either.

Going up to someone is like playing a lottery ticket that someone gave you. If you win, you win. If you loose, you didnt loose.

If that makes any sense.
never thought of it that way, but i'll be thinkin of it that way from now on... :D

Fasterthanyou 11-18-2004 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted by j0n
well unfortunately i have joined the ranks of the bachelors of njfboa...cuz i went 2 the race track last night :lol:
That's rather sad to think that she wouldn't understand. For crying out loud, did you at least invite her?
Women that don't understand that you need FRIENDS to stay sain are wako's. Trust me, they are SCARY crazy. I can't tell you how many of my friends have no friends because of a crazy life sucking b*tch of a girlfriend that would make them feel bad for going out once a week with a group of friends. I've only saved 1 of my friends from said life ruining relationships. It was back in highschool when my best friend started dating a girl we all knew. We always said hi to her but she would never talk. She just was SO shy. She latched onto him like a life preserver that we couldn't go anywhere without her. Me and a bunch of friends pulled him aside and had to tell him to choose between her and us. We where is 2 best friends and it was enough to get him to dump her. She was so attached to him that when he went away to college she transfered to a school 5 minutes away from his (Rochester Univ.). He's now living a normal life with friends,family, and a girlfriend while the bitch has gotten married and had a kit already.
Moral of the story; if you're young, relationships need to be flexible. If a girl makes you decide between friends or her, drop her like a bad habit. If she can't stand your friends how do you think she'll stand YOU in the long run?

LS1LT1 11-18-2004 03:26 PM
Single and LOVING IT! :lol:


But then again:

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Originally Posted by ProtekYoNutz
this goes to everyone who is a lil scared
Have you ever wondered which hurts the most? Sayin something and wishing you hadn't? or saying nothing and wishing you had?...I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say. Dont be afraid to tell someone you love them. If you do, they might break your heart...if you dont YOU might break theirs. Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person? Your heart decides whom it likes and whom it doesn't. You can't tell you heart what to do. It does it on its own...when you least expect it or even when you dont want it to. Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had but that pther person was too afraid to let you? Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much...for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all. Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle? We tell lies when we are afraid... everytime we tell a lie, the things we fear grows stronger. Life is all about RISKS and it requires you to jump. Dont be a person who has to look back and wonder what they WOULD have done or COULD have had. What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye? I guess what im trying to say is that life requires risks...whether its with love or well life itself....live for the moment....take a chance...after all there is always tomorrow to start something new if things dont go rite....but you will never have to say....what if...:usa:
Ok then, I'm taking your advice so I won't have to live with the regret of having not said anything....Kelly, even though we've only met once and I'm umm, quite a bit older than you, will you go out with me? :? :D :wink:
Especially considering your openmindedness on age differences and all:
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Originally Posted by ProtekYoNutz
eh age is but a number...i say regardless of how old you are (given its legal of course) shouldnt matter who you date as long as you care for the person....i mean i have seen and heard LOTs of stories of people who got married and they are like 10 years apart or heck i know one of my friends parents is 16 years apart...and yet they are madly in love....its a crazy world...
:wink: :wink:

Tru2Chevy 11-18-2004 04:41 PM
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Originally Posted by PBodyGT87
Unlike the limited shades of brown and tan that humans come in, with cars you have the options of colors like Medium Maui Blue with Metal Flake. Ain't she pretty?
Ahh....Medium Maui Blue :D

- Justin

ProtekYoNutz 11-18-2004 05:22 PM
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Originally Posted by LS1LT1
Single and LOVING IT! :lol:


But then again:

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Originally Posted by ProtekYoNutz
this goes to everyone who is a lil scared
Have you ever wondered which hurts the most? Sayin something and wishing you hadn't? or saying nothing and wishing you had?...I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say. Dont be afraid to tell someone you love them. If you do, they might break your heart...if you dont YOU might break theirs. Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person? Your heart decides whom it likes and whom it doesn't. You can't tell you heart what to do. It does it on its own...when you least expect it or even when you dont want it to. Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had but that pther person was too afraid to let you? Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much...for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all. Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle? We tell lies when we are afraid... everytime we tell a lie, the things we fear grows stronger. Life is all about RISKS and it requires you to jump. Dont be a person who has to look back and wonder what they WOULD have done or COULD have had. What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye? I guess what im trying to say is that life requires risks...whether its with love or well life itself....live for the moment....take a chance...after all there is always tomorrow to start something new if things dont go rite....but you will never have to say....what if...:usa:
Ok then, I'm taking your advice so I won't have to live with the regret of having not said anything....Kelly, even though we've only met once and I'm umm, quite a bit older than you, will you go out with me? :? :D :wink:
Especially considering your openmindedness on age differences and all:
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Originally Posted by ProtekYoNutz
eh age is but a number...i say regardless of how old you are (given its legal of course) shouldnt matter who you date as long as you care for the person....i mean i have seen and heard LOTs of stories of people who got married and they are like 10 years apart or heck i know one of my friends parents is 16 years apart...and yet they are madly in love....its a crazy world...
:wink: :wink:

i forget who u r exactly :oops: its hard to keep faces and names straight

Midnite 11-18-2004 06:23 PM
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Originally Posted by DaytonaDan
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Originally Posted by Midnite
...I've been single and dating since March after a 2 year relationship, and I absolutely love being single. I've met a lot of...um...INTERESTING...people. But seriously, I've had the best time of my life being single, so everyone, stop sounding so depressed about being single! Go out and enjoy life, meet as many people as you can, you learn a lot about life in general, and when you don't expect it, someone will come into your life. You can't wait around waiting for it to just happen cause then it never will. And for those of you that are scared to approach attractive girls, you need to get over it! What's worse, Constantly thinking about that attractive girl and then never knowing what she may think of you? or possibly getting turned down? You don't know what will happen, so give it a shot, you never know....

I live every day by this quote...
"Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here, we might as well dance" unknown, read it in an email from breast cancer survivers

Alicia
I agree, being single WAS fun for awhile, but it gets old after a year or so...although being a guy its alot harder to meet "interesting" people, i think girls have it easy (and yes i know that statement is gonna get me a lashin from every girl on the board). but seriously i'd love for a girl to ask me on a date, or initiate the conversation. who's with me on that one?
I definitely agree that girls have it easier when meeting people, especially at bars/clubs and other social events. And I would have to agree with what someone said earlier about how girls suck. I seriously think that girls are worse then guys these days. Yep, I'm a 22 yr old female and I admit it!

Alicia

formula4speed 11-18-2004 06:53 PM
You know guys you're all tired of being single and there are all these girls here into f-bodies, you know, hint hint...










:lol:

9secfirebird 11-18-2004 08:42 PM
ahhh id only be interested in em if they wanted to help me build hot motors and work on cars and stuff....oh yeah, long walks on the beach and cuddling infront of a winter fire ; ) hahaha....but im sure none of them are into that stuff haha

and if any might be into that....you can reach me on aol

haha

LS1LT1 11-19-2004 01:29 AM
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Originally Posted by ProtekYoNutz
i forget who u r exactly :oops: its hard to keep faces and names straight
I'm Marc, met you at Fuddrucker's that one time, the guy on the crutches, woke you up while you were trying to sleep in the driver's seat of the red TA. That's me. :wavey: :D

PBodyGT87 11-19-2004 07:16 AM
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Originally Posted by 9secfirebird
ahhh id only be interested in em if they wanted to help me build hot motors and work on cars and stuff....oh yeah, long walks on the beach and cuddling infront of a winter fire ; ) hahaha....but im sure none of them are into that stuff haha

and if any might be into that....you can reach me on aol

haha

hey i am into all that. see? it's possible. ah **** but i am not single. damn.

Pat 11-19-2004 08:42 AM
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Originally Posted by PBodyGT87
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Originally Posted by 9secfirebird
ahhh id only be interested in em if they wanted to help me build hot motors and work on cars and stuff....oh yeah, long walks on the beach and cuddling infront of a winter fire ; ) hahaha....but im sure none of them are into that stuff haha

and if any might be into that....you can reach me on aol

haha

hey i am into all that. see? it's possible. ah **** but i am not single. damn.
**** dude, don't worry about her - she gave me the same lame ass excuse :roll:

matt98ls1 11-19-2004 09:22 AM
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Originally Posted by formula4speed
You know guys you're all tired of being single and there are all these girls here into f-bodies, you know, hint hint...
:lol:


haha yep... I think we've reached that point where everyone should post a picture of themselves, and see what develops from that... :oops:


but then again, that might turn into one giant leg-humping thread with 20 guys going after about 4-5 girls... :lol:

BigAls87Z28 11-19-2004 09:32 AM
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Originally Posted by matt98ls1
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Originally Posted by formula4speed
You know guys you're all tired of being single and there are all these girls here into f-bodies, you know, hint hint...
:lol:


haha yep... I think we've reached that point where everyone should post a picture of themselves, and see what develops from that... Â* :oops: Â*


but then again, that might turn into one giant leg-humping thread with 20 guys going after about 4-5 girls... :lol:
Picture thread....that would lead to a giant leg humping thread you say?
Hrm...


http://www.njfboa.org/forums/viewtopic.php?t=370

ShitOnWheels 11-19-2004 12:01 PM
Ya, pic thread has been done before. Â*That pic I posted now pisses me off :( Â*Only good pic I have of me tho...unless you count my senior pictures from HS which are well over 4 years old now...

matt98ls1 11-19-2004 12:13 PM
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Originally Posted by BigAls87Z28
Picture thread....that would lead to a giant leg humping thread you say? Â*
Hrm...http://www.njfboa.org/forums/viewtopic.php?t=370

Haha whoops.... I gotta start searching more before I post :banghead:

Tru2Chevy 11-19-2004 02:25 PM
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Originally Posted by ****OnWheels
Ya, pic thread has been done before. Â*That pic I posted now pisses me off :( Â*Only good pic I have of me tho...unless you count my senior pictures from HS which are well over 4 years old now...
Not that you really look any different......

- Justin

PBodyGT87 11-19-2004 02:40 PM
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Originally Posted by SilverTransAm
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Originally Posted by PBodyGT87
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Originally Posted by 9secfirebird
ahhh id only be interested in em if they wanted to help me build hot motors and work on cars and stuff....oh yeah, long walks on the beach and cuddling infront of a winter fire ; ) hahaha....but im sure none of them are into that stuff haha

and if any might be into that....you can reach me on aol

haha

hey i am into all that. see? it's possible. ah **** but i am not single. damn.
**** dude, don't worry about her - she gave me the same lame ass excuse Â*:roll:
that's not an excuse, it's the truth.

ShitOnWheels 11-19-2004 02:43 PM
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Originally Posted by Tru2Chevy
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Originally Posted by ****OnWheels
Ya, pic thread has been done before. Â*That pic I posted now pisses me off :( Â*Only good pic I have of me tho...unless you count my senior pictures from HS which are well over 4 years old now...
Not that you really look any different......

- Justin
So true. I was lookin at pics the other night in my family room...holy **** I haven't changed since I was like 2. Not sure if that's a good thing or not, lol.

9secfirebird 11-19-2004 07:09 PM
well PBodyGT87, when you are single....im first in line!


mike :wink:

DaytonaDan 11-19-2004 08:09 PM
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Originally Posted by Midnite
I definitely agree that girls have it easier when meeting people, especially at bars/clubs and other social events. And I would have to agree with what someone said earlier about how girls suck. I seriously think that girls are worse then guys these days. Yep, I'm a 22 yr old female and I admit it!

Alicia

Good, now convince my exs to agree with you, :lol:

I think i need lessons on proper bar/club etiquette to going up to girls and what exactly you're supposed to do,if i went up to a girl, my luck seems to be go up to a girl, her boyfriend is a few feet away

Midnite 11-20-2004 02:08 AM
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Originally Posted by DaytonaDan
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Originally Posted by Midnite
I definitely agree that girls have it easier when meeting people, especially at bars/clubs and other social events. Â*And I would have to agree with what someone said earlier about how girls suck. Â*I seriously think that girls are worse then guys these days. Â*Yep, I'm a 22 yr old female and I admit it!

Alicia

Good, now convince my exs to agree with you, Â*:lol: Â*

I think i need lessons on proper bar/club etiquette to going up to girls and what exactly you're supposed to do,if i went up to a girl, my luck seems to be go up to a girl, her boyfriend is a few feet away
OK, this is what I have learned tonight.....there is NO proper way to go up to a girl at a bar/club. Either the girl is interested in you or she's not. It doesn't matter what the guy says or does to initiate conversation, so don't freak out to much about what your first impression will be when going up to someone at a bar/cub. The first impression was already made when a girl looked at you, and when she did, she already decided whether or not she would talk to you if you possibly came up to her. AND, if you go up to her and she wants to talk to you, then whatever you do, don't act too shy! AND, if she ignores you or answers your questions very short and looks around on how to find the best route to get away from you without making you feel bad, then just walk away before the situation gets worse.

BigAls87Z28 11-20-2004 08:44 AM
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Originally Posted by Midnite
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Originally Posted by DaytonaDan
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Originally Posted by Midnite
I definitely agree that girls have it easier when meeting people, especially at bars/clubs and other social events. Â*And I would have to agree with what someone said earlier about how girls suck. Â*I seriously think that girls are worse then guys these days. Â*Yep, I'm a 22 yr old female and I admit it!

Alicia

Good, now convince my exs to agree with you, Â*:lol: Â*

I think i need lessons on proper bar/club etiquette to going up to girls and what exactly you're supposed to do,if i went up to a girl, my luck seems to be go up to a girl, her boyfriend is a few feet away
OK, this is what I have learned tonight.....there is NO proper way to go up to a girl at a bar/club. Â*Either the girl is interested in you or she's not. Â*It doesn't matter what the guy says or does to initiate conversation, so don't freak out to much about what your first impression will be when going up to someone at a bar/cub. Â*The first impression was already made when a girl looked at you, and when she did, she already decided whether or not she would talk to you if you possibly came up to her. Â*AND, if you go up to her and she wants to talk to you, then whatever you do, don't act too shy! Â*AND, if she ignores you or answers your questions very short and looks around on how to find the best route to get away from you without making you feel bad, then just walk away before the situation gets worse.
Hrmmmm.....good advise from the other side. Could come in handy later on.

superblonde 11-20-2004 09:39 AM
Wow, the things I miss when I don't check the boards every day. I feel like I'm watching an episode of Dr. Phil.

skorpion317 11-20-2004 05:24 PM
workin on being a non-bachelor :D


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