Long ass convo, gunna hurt someone
 

Let me start his off with some background. This post is gunna be long as hell, so grab some pop corn.
My gf's ex bf thing got out of jail last month. She wanted to go up to NY state and see him. Mind you, she is super bitchy when I go to meets in the state. So I let it slide, and she said nothing will happen, she doesnt think of him like that, yadda yadda yadda. She came back, she swore up and down nohting happend, and I took it at face vaule.
Wrong. The following is from the ex bf I had 20 mins ago.

ApOcLyPsE101: well i was in prison for 2 1/2 i am sure you know that and the whole time i was there meg was staying in touch with me and **** and i did actually hade become to love megan and well. i dont know how your relationship is going with here and i dont know if she is and you broke up or well i eally dont know anything so that is why i am talking to you. to know. i hope you understand me i wanted to do this for a long time but i have been holding out. out of respect and ****
ApOcLyPsE101: i will not be led on by anyone
BigAls87Z28: ok
ApOcLyPsE101: well i think this is where you tell me to step off , talk all types of ****, or say you dont give a ****
BigAls87Z28: well I dont know what is going on
BigAls87Z28: and I dont want to be lead around
BigAls87Z28: and I pretty much gave up on it last night
BigAls87Z28: cause I feel she is hiding something from me
BigAls87Z28: and that she wont tell me
ApOcLyPsE101: do you want me to be strait forward or what because i noticed the same ****
BigAls87Z28: be strait foward
ApOcLyPsE101: ok
ApOcLyPsE101: she told me that i well i told her that i wanted to be with her at least a year ago, and from the way the letters were going it was mutual then i get out and you too are dating so. well i put a lot of thinking into this because before i got locked up i used to **** every hott chick that i seen and they all knew what i was doing and i got tired of that **** so i chose to settle down. now i told her she has a choice from the start that either she says with you or that she make a decision and i will wait for her to decide but she never decides. i kept it like that because i dont want to be ****ing with any man woman it is not my thing these days so we kept our relationship as a friendship .
ApOcLyPsE101: but i guess she did end up with a decision when she told me that you too are what was the words...ov no split up
ApOcLyPsE101: but i dont really want it to be like that
BigAls87Z28: be like what?
ApOcLyPsE101: i am not a pimp and i dont want chicks to chose
BigAls87Z28: ok
ApOcLyPsE101: if its gonna be a way it should be that people are getting pissed of with eachother and **** not for another dude that you like or love more
BigAls87Z28: wait
BigAls87Z28: that last part
BigAls87Z28: huh?
ApOcLyPsE101: no homo
ApOcLyPsE101: lol
ApOcLyPsE101: in a womans eyes i was hypotheticlly speaking
BigAls87Z28: ah ok
ApOcLyPsE101: ok for instance she does somtings that are really starting to piss you off or you are doing things that she is tired of whatever it is that make people not like one another
BigAls87Z28: right
ApOcLyPsE101: no i was not talking about you or i likeing other dudes that is madd homo **** lol
BigAls87Z28: I know, I just wasnt sure wtf you were talking about
ApOcLyPsE101: yea i saw what i typed after it was entered already
ApOcLyPsE101: dude skeletons is the closet is some nasty **** i know what that is about and i guess you can say that i was that goast. it should be said and you should definitly know about it. and if you gave up on it last night. i am gonna step up to the plate. if you got hard felings about it i will be in jersey tomorow and we can talk about it. if you dont want to even deal with the ****, as myself we can do what i would chose and just forget about it. however it is what it is. what so you say
ApOcLyPsE101 signed on at 12:18:28 AM.
BigAls87Z28: so basicly
BigAls87Z28: you are telling me to step out of the way
ApOcLyPsE101: no
BigAls87Z28: so that you can take a crack at it
ApOcLyPsE101: i did that already years ago
ApOcLyPsE101: i am tring to find out if it is finished so i can take a crack at it like i said i will not tread on your space
BigAls87Z28: right
BigAls87Z28: so what happend up in NY
BigAls87Z28: be flat out
ApOcLyPsE101 is away at 12:21:25 AM.
BigAls87Z28: be honest to me, I want to know what happend
Auto response from ApOcLyPsE101: got to get some money orders for my felon friends

ApOcLyPsE101 returned at 12:21:35 AM.
ApOcLyPsE101: um
ApOcLyPsE101: ok we went to a bar whats her name alisa had mozerella stick
ApOcLyPsE101: i had chicken
ApOcLyPsE101: then we came back to my moms house and chilled for a while
ApOcLyPsE101: i made megan get out of the car because the roads were all icy and she is not familliar with this cuntry ass **** soi drove
BigAls87Z28: ok
ApOcLyPsE101: i dont know dude you could make me a hipocrite here
ApOcLyPsE101: it might sound bad and **** but it wasnt
ApOcLyPsE101: we went to a hotel i drank beer and **** and chilled
BigAls87Z28: ok
ApOcLyPsE101: i ate some more food
BigAls87Z28: so you're saying nothing happend?
ApOcLyPsE101: thats what i am tring to say but i cant say that
BigAls87Z28: why cant you say that?
ApOcLyPsE101: i can not say that because **** **** damnit
BigAls87Z28: dude, just come out with it
BigAls87Z28: just tell me what happend
ApOcLyPsE101: yea **** happend man i really did not want to be the one to have to tell you that much
BigAls87Z28: what
BigAls87Z28: happend
ApOcLyPsE101: what do you mean
BigAls87Z28: what happend
BigAls87Z28: did you guys kiss, ****, wtf?
ApOcLyPsE101: we were makin out and ****
BigAls87Z28: explain
BigAls87Z28: ok
ApOcLyPsE101: i always say bros before hoes because it is really never the guys fault, but it was definitly my fault on that i think
ApOcLyPsE101: guys are guys
BigAls87Z28: so
ApOcLyPsE101: oh by the way eric yea he is still infatuated with her
BigAls87Z28: no ****
ApOcLyPsE101: just a spur of the moment coment
BigAls87Z28: so you guys made out
BigAls87Z28: no ********
ApOcLyPsE101: he did not know that she had a myspace untill he saw mine then he started talking about killing himself and **** from depression
ApOcLyPsE101: i dont know but it only lasted a few mins but i hope he was joking all together
BigAls87Z28: ok
BigAls87Z28: in all realness
BigAls87Z28: i really could give a ****
BigAls87Z28: sorry for him
BigAls87Z28: but I dont feel an once of sadness if he hurts himself
BigAls87Z28: for what he did to her
BigAls87Z28: and in the **** you tell me is real
BigAls87Z28: and you aint bs'ing me
BigAls87Z28: then you can ****in have her
ApOcLyPsE101: hes alright but he is a nut somtimes an abusive ****er too and i would go to punish him if i heard that he beats on his girl now.
ApOcLyPsE101: i dont bs i try to sugar coat

Im beyond pissed. I took her out ot Detroit with me, and she bitched and moaned that she didnt want to be there. I could have taken any one of you guys or gals, and would have appreciated it 100000x more. I cant belive this, I am beyond mad, Im at a level of just blank. I ended it with her last night, but wasnt sure if that was right or if I should ge tback with her. This right here sealed the ****ing deal.

...........And her car doesn't run 11's.

*jab* *twocents*

Al, so..... in a nut shell

Your g/f went to see her ex b/f just after he got out of prison.

She made out w/ him.

Al, you sir...... are single now.... ditch her and look elsewhere!

You are a good guy... granted you don't like neons.... but still a good guy.

Keep your chin up.... a good girl will gcome your way!!!!!

once a cheater, always a cheater.......IMHO

seriously mark that filthy whore with a Scarlet "A" and move on

tahts ****ed up, but just to play the devils advocate, maybe he is just sayign that to get his shot at her. i dont know all the specifics or her side of the story though. but i know how you feel, i was with a girl 2 years and i found out she cheated on me 2 in the past month, i lost it. and if she did do something, wasnt meant to be, girls are evil, as proven in that other thread. I kno this will sound repetative, but theres someone out there for everyone, it just takes a while. i found my girl and yeah its great now but in 3 years i dunno where ill be or if we'll last, i hope so but who knows. live life for yourself, i have fallen so far behind on working on ym cars since i got a GF, but finally im making time to do what i like. You live and learn.

well......i wont go on about how i feel about meg, cause you already know. honestly that guy seems like a total scumbag, from his myspace alone, now from this. what a piece of crap. and those comments she left him were way out of line.....the scars she left on him......them kissing and her stealing his tongue ring.....but you can't say that your good friend is "stunning" which is a much more intelligent way to say anything the two of them could have ever put together

honestly al you did the right thing last night, we all said it to you and you KNEW IT YOURSELF. yes she is awful for hurting you that way...but think about what he said about every girl he did....that's not you, you're not a filty piece of crap whore. they deserve each other. and you deserve MUCH better.

i know good things are about to happen for you. if not immediate, then soon enough. for now enjoy it and take it as it comes. just be open to it....and the other side will too.........

first Jason (AL knows who i'm talkin about), now this.

thats ****ed up....plain and simple.

i'd be beyond pissed if i was you.

i know that BS situation all too well bro.

just keep your head up, things get better. trust me.

Yeah. I have been meaning to talk to Jason since we hung out a good deal at the show.

let me know if there is anything i can do to help Al.

like i said, that situation is all too familiar with me.

Al, you should have taken me or liz to detroit. you would have had a blast and not had to go through all this crap. thats just my opinion.

also al, if you need anyone to talk to, you know I'm here for ya. we go way back and I love you like a brother.

Thanks guys. I tried calling my ex tonight to clear things up, but no answer. She has work at 730, and I plan on meeting her before she walks in the doors.

don't do anything stupid.......

ah, **** that ****, it just gives you a reason to find someone else.i wouldnt dwell on it too much, ya got knocked down, so in all honesty, what i would do, is i would call her up and say "look, i dont ever want to see you again and you know why...have a nice life" **CLICK** and youll think about it for a minute or so, and then she will try to call you back and get in touch with you alot of times prolly, if she doesnt, its ok cuz shes a bitch anyway. if she does, dont answer the phone or anything, as some friends tought my, silence is wayyy more powerful than words are. and ya know what my man, in about two days she will stop tryin to get in touch with you, and before that happens, youll say to yourself "ah....its good to be back (to the single life)"

personally with myself, i dont dwell on things at all, at funerals and stuff, i never cry, it doesnt bother me, my house burned down, and i lost everything, all i had was the clothes on my back, and it didnt bother me one bit, i had a smile on my face...everyone was like "whats wrong with you, why arent you sad or angry"
i tell them "it could be worse, i could have two broken legs, or i could have been inside that burning building" jsut remember that, it could have been worse, like you could have gotten to know this girl for another 2 or 3 years for example. then he gets out, then this happens after your married with 1 kid on the way. be proud. always remember, you deserve better.

I just got off the phone with her. Of course she claims that nothing happend, and yes I belive her cause this kid is a douche and would cause WWIII. My biggest thing about this is how she lied about his feelings for her and her feelings for him. She said that he felt nothing for her, and that she never wanted to be more then friends with this kid. Clearly, that is BS. When they talk on the phone, when they chat on line, and the little myspace comments, it all mounts up. Its the matter of fact that she lied to me, telling me that nothing was going on when CLEARLY something was.

wtf? Was that his first attempt at speaking english? That could have been fuggin swahili and I would have understood it better. Al, let me tell ya from eperience, no matter how you feel about someone, if they have a track record of cheating and deception and the uglyness starts to surface, get the hell out cuz it'll never end. Ok that was wierd. Giving advice makes me feel like a parent. Let's just get drunk at Friday's tonight.

I'm sorry to hear that Al, but at least now its clear in your mind that leaving her was the right thing to do. I read everyones posts and I agree with all of them. If you ever want to chat, you know how to get me.

~Ted

like you said Al, even if nothing happened between them, the fact is she still lied.

personally, that kind of **** is unacceptable when serious feelings are involved.

you're the better person in all this for seeing it for what it really is.

**** you. I was just about to post that.

*Notice. The following comments that are made are for pure comedy and are in no way ment to hurt anyone*

What was he doing with her then?

Shens

Edit : Oh and I told you I would have appreciated it more.
Edit 2: I ment both the car show and the sex

**** that noise, thats ********.

from what youre saying and what ive seen, shes a big bitchfest...i say youre better off without her.

:stupid:

And Dennis' input "Well she was a beast"

too much baggage man, theres so many girls out there. If drama happens like that i just cut it off, you can always find another one.