new theory
 

i've got a new theory on meeting girls that i've picked up over the past almost 3 months of being single. I've seen a lot of girls around with scumbag guys lately, (you all know the type). My ex is also now dating a scumbag that works at hess, not that there is anything wrong with doing that, (i did it also....in highschool), but the guy is a typical scumbag and a lot of nice girls i know are dating a-holes that cheat on them left and right. So my new theory is
1. quit my job then go work at like mcdonalds or something like that
2. sell my car and truck and buy some old pos truck
3. grow a mullet and wear some ratty ass clothes
4. start being an a-hole to girls, it seems thats what they like

this is my new theory, and i bet i'd get farther than i am now.

it's the truth bro... many women are ****ED up in my book. sorry.. i know this whole thread will start a pitiful "well guys are messed up too"... and I wouldn't disagree, however, women date the losers because that's the in thing.... it's all about three things my friend....

a) MONEY.... if you have it, you'll get hot chicks *look at Chris Farley before he passed on, the guy had so many hot women it was insane and while he was funny, he was one UGLY mofo

b) if you don't have the money... it's about the LOOKS... girls will take a guy with no money as long as they are extremely good looking or at least their friends think they are....

finally...

c) gotta be an *******. Women are not into dating "nice" guys... trust me, I know this scenario all too well.


End of rant :-D

i used to think that about the money thing but now i tend to disagree, i do pretty well and have a great job, and that doesn't seem to matter.

i think it's all about the "grungy a-holes" i heard that girls like ********, but women like nice guys, if thats the case i haven't met 1 woman.

Lol its true that they love aholes, but i garuntee it would be hard for you to act like one. I know I have tried but its not in my nature so it never works for me lol. All girls like nice guys too but usually only to use them for things.....like someone to talk too about thier problems.

QFT. I used to think like this all the time, But eventually youll find the right person!

same here bro, ive tried it and it doesnt really work for me. now two of my best friends can pull it off pretty flawlessly, one of them is bangin this hot chick everynight and theyre not even dating! :lol:

its a proven fact that girls love an *******, my brother would treat his girlfriends like **** and theyd love him.... im the nice guy and i dont get anywhere! its just liek that greenday song "nice guys finish last"

THe ******* part of the theory has already been done. It's called the Deacon Effect. Google it.

eventually u meet the right one.... im the nice guy too and i have an amazing girlfriend :} u guys gotta find the unspoiled girls spoiled girls always want what they cant ever really have hence the ******** the unspoiled girls look for the guy thats gonna treat them right its just hard as hell to find a girl like that.... least thats my opinion

when I said money, I didn't just mean "doing pretty well". At my school, I'd say hmmm... a good 15-20 guys drive ferrari's and maseratis that they're daddy's bought for them. If you're in the league to drive those.... you'll ALWAYS get good looking women. Period.... if ur not, then you don't have enough money yet for the "spoiled" chicks, lol. And I certainly probably will NEVER have that kind of money.

Well if you're still in high school the majority of girls at that age are shallow and are not thinking of the bigger picture. Just like guys, girls grow up and realize there's more to a guy than what he drives or how much money is in his bank account. I have friends with steady girls and wives and none of them are loaded or have a great ride, but yet they're in solid relationships. Most girls eventually go for the guy that's going to treat them right.

most girls go with ass holes because of a few posible reasons......

a. there is the theory that people go for similar characteristics of their parents...so if a girl had a dad who was an ass....she unconciously ends up and looks for that in a guy...

b. they had issues growing up and dont think much of themselves to go for a nice guy. they dont think they could get any better

c. they are vulnerable and say yes to the first nice thing a guy does and than doesnt see how much of an ass he really is.....the denial factor

d. they are stupid and sadly "nice guys finish last"


now i have gone for the wrong type of guys for well most of my younger years...every girl has had a least one....realizing i was being stupid i became single for like 3 years to really figure out what i wanted.....eventually u will find a good girl....just takes time (not what anyone wants to hear) yeah so thats my input

You talking about FDU ? lol

Oh and read this

http://forum.myspace.com/index.cfm?f...44C7F88B207262


I read it some of it out of boredom one day it its made alot of sense :) Not that I tried it but if you think about it and look around you can probably see your buddies using it.

Here is the thing...if they only date a-holes, and they date you, does that make you an a-hole? And if so, is that what you want to be?

Since were on the topic of girls and Ex's, I just found out my Ex is a Crack Whore! I'm serrious it's wierd and I'm glad we stoped talking when we did. If you ask me I say the triffling whore is getting whats comeing to her...

It isn't easy.

Also, you must factor in the age of the people involved.

Seems like people want a challenge.... they want to be the one who reformed the bad ass.... made them kick their habits.... made the ******* a nice guy etc.

Personally... I REFUSED to become an ******* just to find a girl.

If you look, you will not find her.... she is out there..... probably right in front of you.... once you stop looking then you will find the one

is her name michelle by any chance? lol

i agree with her... it just pisses me off when the grl i like will sit there complaining about the guys she dates being dicks and what not mean while nice guys like me r all around but aren't given a second look because were not as good lookin as the asses and they r asses cause they know there good looking.

so everyones a good guy on this thread :shrug: then who's all the bad guys thats taking up all the hot chicks?

Its Emily :lol:

The being an ******* thing doesnt work especially if your a nice guy at heart. Just takes time.

I'll be the first to admit that I do have my ******* moments, but apparently its not enough to land me a GF :lol:

Many of you know my stories ... Im a "crazy-stalker-bitch"/"teenage-mom" magnet :lol: Anyway, Yes yes its true some of the good looking girls date the ********, but who really cares. As far as I know, if shes got a great personality and loves the same interests, then things can work out. If she's great looking, thats just a bonus. But this is just me talking, so ramble on my fellow handhumpers :lol:

but what really attracts you to them first? their looks or their personality?

Personality.... but brunettes are a definate plus :-D

*Edit* ... Would anyone wanna date a really really sexy girl that does absolutely nothing but mooch or go to the same mall every day? Thats why Im more attracted to the personality.

nah i ment if u look at a girl.. what do u notice first? ur there ugly ur not really gunna wanna go up to them to see if they have a good personality