1 dead, 1 critical after crash in my town
 

http://www.nj.com/newsflash/jersey/i...orylist=jersey

apparently my sister knew them. she called me around 1 today to ask if i could pick her up from school because she needed to go home, but i was in DC with my friend picking up his sister.

people need to stop dying in my town :(

...you just know how to get into the holiday spirit.

i talked to my sister, she was friends with both of them. apparently, they were trying to kill themselves...

:(

thats horrible. Â* :(

jese they where trying to kill themselves
must of had something seriously wrong in their lives.:cry:

im on the kingston first aid squad.... i heard the call go out at like 3:30.... but another squad responded to that call. but we are all sorry about the lose of the guy... and we can only hope for the best of the other guy.....
i didnt know the 2 kids but i know people who do and there freaking out about this hole thing. and ive seen things like this first hand last summer...

i felt sad when i read it....i stopped when i found out they purposely killed themselves...i put people who commit suicide in the same class as people who die drunk driving..

How depressed is this kid going to be if/when he wakes -- to try and kill yourself and fail at that too.

What ever happened to running the car inside the garage?

Agreed.

suicide = cowards way out.

later
tim

i feel so sad when i read things like this. how could you be so upset with your life, that nothing is left but to kill yourself, especially in such a way that might hurt other people on the road? i don't think people realize just how much they impact other's lives when they take such extreme action. my best friend passed away this past may in an accident on rt 80, totally accidental, the poice report said he was wearing his seatbelt, doing the speed limit, etc...but for some reason, even though he was doing everything right, it was his time. just three months before his 21st birthday. it's so unfair to see someone taken so early and know how much i still hurt from it, and then think that people actually do this on purpose?? it just blows my mind.

the thing that gets me is how these kids parents feel. i watched my friends little brother die in a car accident many years ago and my uncle die of cancer when both my grand parents were still alive. noithing can describe teh pain in a parents eyes when they are burying their own child.
to think someone would intentiaonally put their parents through that is beyond stupid. it pisses me off jsut thinking about it.

later
tim

couple pics from the newspaper in case anyone's interested...

http://community.webshots.com/album/235327975NnKnIK

holy ****
how fast where they going?:shock:

What also sucks is the driver is gonna get charged with juvenile form of murder. Â*I'm guessing he'll be sure to kill himself soon to avoid that. Â*:(

Somebody SURVIVED that crash?!?

1 of them srurvived... the other one died on impact of the pole

Yeah, I have no sympathy for suicide victims, since they didnt have any for anyone else such as family and friends.

Its very selfish.

from what i understand the one that died had nothing to do with the suicide...it was the kid that survived that had the suicide note in his pocket

Before my 21 yr old cousin commited suicide 8 months ago, I would've agreed with you guys. But after he did what he did, and me, knowing what he's been through his whole life, sometimes you just can't take the pain anymore I guess. Yes, he has put his family through hell by what he has done, I'm still grieving from losing him. I'm sure he never thought about how much his family would hurt, because he was in too much pain himself. Can you imagine uncontrollable cirumstances making you just want to cry every day and your heart aching so bad? He went through so much in his life from the time he was 2 yr's old until he killed himself, that I believe that now he's in peace. Maybe he's finally happy or at least not hurting anymore. He was such a good kid, but life threw him too many curveballs that most people don't go through in 3 lifetimes, let alone 21 yrs of life. I don't believe its the "cowards way out"(some circumstances might be i guess), but it really is a last resort in some people eyes when they truly believe that nothing will ever make them smile again then they don't want to live anymore. I don't know...just my $.02

The paper today said there were notes in both kids' pockets. :shrug:

for certain instances i would agree with you, but for the "my girl of 3 months dumped me" or "my parents wont buy me a new lexus, they only gave me this 2 year old one" kids who kill themselves, let em go....i would love to have all suicide hot line calls like examples above transfered to my phone, i'd tell them to do it and hang up