Heh your plans sound like a lot fun - just remember that you will only be consulted on the color of the tux you and your groomsmen will wear. Everything else will be planned by her and her family. All they will expect you to do is show up. Believe me - this is a good thing.
Tuck those grandiose ideas away in the back of your mind for the nights when you're vacuuming the house, folding the laundry and getting bottles ready for the baby. You'll need em.
- Dave, been there, done that
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Wanted this -

, but ended up with this -

for free. Can't argue with free.