I ended up getting Tubular Spohn Subframe connectors, because they thought they had the BMRs in stock but they didnt. They were only $20 cheaper so no worries.
PanHard:
Busted Old:
New Hotness:
Subframes:
The car handles great now. No more wheel screach if I take a turn too hard, no side steping on launches, and defenitly not flex in the body going up the driveway or hitting a bump in the road. Ride quality has increased very well
Now I just gotta get the whiney rear fixed and the car will be even better.