ask him to split the difference and call it may at cecil county. that would be about halfway for both of you and in between the two dates

he is the one with the grudge to settle, you only asked about a hood. if he thinks he is the zen master of driving he will have no problem meeting on neutral ground to settle this up.
i still think you shoudl lay this out in a public forum too. call him out in front of everyone. let them all know when to show up to watch this asshat get destroyed.
hehe, i love this kind of ****.