Vitctory! I was able to get a Canadian notarized bill of sale overnighted from the guy and the import company sent me the form that no other state requires anymore and I had my VIN tracing and shipping docs this time. Another drive to downtown Trenton and I was able to title and register it. But get this, as I was getting ready to write out the check for the title and taxes I said I wanted to get the QQ plates as well. So she tells me "that's another office and you pay for that separately"! What???? I knew I had gotten the QQ plates down there before in that same building on the same floor. I'm like WTF? She says "yes, that's window 6". Luckily I had brought 2 blank checks in case I screwed up one. I had to give them 2 separate checks for the title/taxes and for the registration. This explains why we can't balance a budget! But, it's over with and now I can drive the car. Woohoo!
