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Originally Posted by SmokingSS
actually i do believe i wrote it the correct way, since they are not objects he really cant lose or end the "relationship" to them that had would imply, and therefore it would never be in the past tense with the use of had. i am pretty sure when refering to family members of a desceased its still "has".
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im pretty sure you are right. the kids are still alive. if we were talking about dad then it would be had.