hen i was at school i decided not to do the frat thing even though i was invited. it wasn't any particular worry about drinking or even any real concern for the money(you will find it costs to belong to most civic/fraternal organizations), it was just that i don't like people enough to run to the closest wawa at 4am just because one of the brothers wanted a coffee or whatever.
i don't see any real problem with most of the common "hazing" or "initiation" stuff that goes on. but there are always those who carry it too far to keep in mind.
making a guy do something embarrassing is one thing, making him do something that is plain old dangerous is a completely different story though.
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