well... i just realized a somewhat LARGE problem ... check out this diagram i drew up....
the top is a obd1 setup...
the second one is the standard obd2 setup....
the third one is my setup... the colors in the boxes on the bottom one is the color of the wires going into the back of my connector... wherever there is color is where a pin is.... wherever the white is there is no pin... obviously there is a problem