If I can offer a bit of advice on the housing let me know.
As for the wedding I'll gladly offer this info. If you haven't selected a site for the banquet yet ask lots of questions. Also, make sure that you have listed in the contract when events will take place i.e. Cocktail hour from 6-7, 7-7:30 introduction of wedding party, 7:30- 8 dances, then food comes out before a certain time. At my wedding the food didn't come out until almost 11 pm but i didn't have it in the contract so they basically said too bad. Live an learn. Also, don't let them push you around telling you what you should have if you want something or a larger room and they say it will look funny do what you want. We wanted a larger room for the ceremony and they talked us out of it and we ended up not having enough space.
Good luck on both events in your life it's well worth it in the end. The honeymoon makes the planning forgetable.
