Thanks so far everyone for the incredible responses. As to the storage unit contents, yes, I will be downsizing and taking care of what I can. The bike I am making payments for so it will stay around, the car is almost definately going. Yes, the car is paid off and I think I will think hard about the millitary and learn as much as I can. I will do what it takes to provide for my family, even downsizing the toys
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