i was looking at your list up top and noticed there is nothing setup fro november.. now i know its not primer weather then for a car meet, but if needed there are some places we could certainly go to i can think of off the top of my head.. somewhat west-central.
Colorado cafe in Watchung NJ.. they used to have car shows there for years on the lawn, up till last year when the thing fell apart
they have bands there sometimes, a few big tv screens and good food and a 3 bars too. the one thing that is kinda silly is sometimes they have dancing nights (like country line dancing) which brings ina ton of ladies.. but there are many rooms that we could be away from that. and the place is big
http://coloradocafe.com/
another place that may be a good spot is the Clinton Station Diner. its in Clinton NJ, right directly at Exit 13 on I-78. super easy to get to. i ate there once and the food was good. they make ENORMOUS burgers too and have eating competitions. i think thier biggest cheeseburger weighs in at 50 pounds, then there is all sorts of other sandwiches too.
www.clintonstationdiner.com
again, if you already have an event/location planned dont worry about this, i just figured i'd throw it out there as an idea