[HardcoreZ28]

Dude trust me when I tell you I know it sucks. I dated a girl for 5 1/2 years and was convinced we would get married. It's all she ever wanted to talk about. Then all of a sudden she pulled a 180 on me and broke up with me for no real reason. I was miserable for 8 months after. Could barely eat, work, etc.

Do yourself a favor and go out with your friends as much as possible just to keep your mind occupied. If you sit around she's all you'll think about and it will drive you crazy. If you're into lifting get some heavy metal music and hit the weights hard. Make yourself believe that you hate her and take all your anger out on the weights. If she's interested in some other guy then she's not the girl you knew her as....she's changed. And do you really want someone who's changed into something you probably don't want?

Take some time to yourself and then start opening up to other girls. I was convinced I wouldn't have another girlfriend for years, and 9 months after I got dumped I found a girl when I wasn't even looking. Best part is right after that the ex tried to come crawling back......revenge is sweet my friend, just wait for it.