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Originally Posted by DaytonaDan
Dated a crazy girl durin the summer, and havent talked to her in over a month because she sucks at life, last serious relationship was well over a year and a half ago...interesting thing was that she totally messed the whole thing up and just recently got back in touch with me to apologize for being a horrible girlfriend...that felt good for a few minutes... girls always seem to go for the jerks, i'm sure most of us have had this conversation at one point or another, well i have a way of explaining it...
I study psychology at rutgers and there is an experiement done on dogs (and yes this def applies to girls) where this guy Solomon had 3 groups of dogs enter a white room he was sittin in with no stimulus' available other than him and the stool he sat on, as well as the other dogs. anyways so 3 groups of lab dogs, with a few dogs in each group. what he did was for one group he gave them nothing but praise and treats. the second group he ignored completely and wouldnt even acknowledge...the third group he gave intermitted rewards... meaning he sometimes randomly gave them praise and sometimes ignored them or hit them with a newspaper...after an hour of this and a few trials, whenever he left the room the third group would follow him and would be the first group to great him when he entered for the next trial.
The moral of the experiement, it is actually more effective to be both mean and nice because when you give intermitted rewards, the animal (or girl) can't tell if you are gonna be nice or mean, so they continue to approach hoping to get the nice. My spin on this for girls that this effect applies as well as the whole mentality that they can "change the man" to change and stick around with jerks becuase they think that those rare nice qualities coming out, will happen more and more if they persist more and more...
Now i would like to try this out...but i'm too nice for it so alas, i havent had luck lately with girls  |
Hmmm....makes me think of a guy I recently dated...interesting....it's so true though!
I've been single and dating since March after a 2 year relationship, and I absolutely love being single. I've met a lot of...um...INTERESTING...people. But seriously, I've had the best time of my life being single, so everyone, stop sounding so depressed about being single! Go out and enjoy life, meet as many people as you can, you learn a lot about life in general, and when you don't expect it, someone will come into your life. You can't wait around waiting for it to just happen cause then it never will. And for those of you that are scared to approach attractive girls, you need to get over it! What's worse, Constantly thinking about that attractive girl and then never knowing what she may think of you? or possibly getting turned down? You don't know what will happen, so give it a shot, you never know....
I live every day by this quote...
"Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here, we might as well dance" unknown, read it in an email from breast cancer survivers
Alicia