I am seriously depressed (girl problems)

[skorpion317]

I just found out that my ex-g/f, who I was trying to get back together with, has rejected me. I am so hurt and confused right now...I don't know what to do....

We were supposed to hang out on Sunday...go out for a picnic or something...i called her 6 times saturday and sunday, and got no return phone call. I tried to IM her today, but she ignored me, and I read in her profile the following words:

"You can't make me love you if I don't. You can't make my heart feel what it won't."

Under that, the following:

"I've kissed many frogs in my life, but i finally found my prince...I love you XXXX!" XXXX is the guy she was hooking up with before i came back into the scene. I just called her 10 minutes ago....She told me she spent the weekend with XXXX down the shore, until sunday, and she decided he was the one, not me. She didn't even call me to tell me on sunday. She told me she doesn't see herself with me at all....and she's happy with XXXX. this is some messed-up *****...everything was going fine until the last 48 hours. then it all went to hell. she just wants to be friends, but i can't get over her. she's the only girl ive ever truly loved...i don't feel anything for other girls. i feel like a big hole has been ripped in my chest...my heart is empty. I'm alone right now...i can't talk to my parents about this, they'll give me the "I told you so" speech. I'm freaking out....idk what to do. someone just talk to me or something....

[inthered]

how old are you dude?

don't worry about her..she'll get what's coming to her.

[Little G]

that sux...

[Pat]

she wouldn't have left you if you had an ls1....




















JUST KIDDING. that sucks dude, i know exactly how you feel. you'll get over it eventually.

[TheWraith]

let her go man, you're better off without her, especially given she'd post cold **** like that message in her profile.

[superblonde]

That sux...
But like they say (I don't know who they are, but they are out there ) there are plenty of fish in the sea...don't stress.

[skorpion317]

Idk...i've never been this messed-up over a girl before. I honestly thought she was "the one", you know? I don't know how the hell i'm gonna get over her...i don't feel anything for other girls (other than sexual attratction...they're all pieces of ass to me except for her).

laymaster, I'm 20 years old.

[formula4speed]

It sucks and something everyone goes through at some point, you'll get past it with time and some good music.

[ProtekYoNutz]

by the sounds of it she is a bitch....but i know exactly how u feel (only flipped cuz i am a girl lol)....something similar happened to me....(few years ago) something like that does mess wit ur head...there is no doubt to that. and there is nothing ne one can say to make ur heart stop feeling or your mind to stop thinking... the only thing i can say to you that didnt come across to me until it was to late is.... things happen for a reason (cleche' i know ) we may not always like it but things do work out... you just need to look for the better part of the situation. i understand the "i told u so's" i got way too many of those....but i also listened to them and sunk into a deep depression and hid myself away from everyone else. i didnt want to think about dating i didnt care....i thought that gettin screwed over has happened so many times be4 why would the next time be ne different....u cant push ur self into letting go. it kinda just has to happen....but in the meanwhile...dont doubt ur self....by the sounds of it ur a great guy ( there arent too many of them usually)...dont settle for ne thing less than what u know u should have... "love isnt brains its blood, screaming inside you to work its will...its not something you can control...just something you live"~written by me.....dont think to much on this break-up....because when u find the true "one" you wont be put in a situation like u are now..dont hide from the world....there is still your someone waiting to be found....im not sure if i have helped ne or if i have just been babbleing.... but good luck to a better relationship.... she'll come your way in time.

[skorpion317]

thanks for trying to help, guys (and girls)....

the thing that's getting me so worked up is that i thought (and still do think) that this girl is that "special someone". she's not a bitch by any stretch of the imagination....i dated her for almost 19 months total, i know everything about her. i just don't know what i screwed up...

[skorpion317]

Originally Posted by ProtekYoNutz

dont doubt ur self....by the sounds of it ur a great guy ( there arent too many of them usually

thanks....i try.

[superblonde]

We've all been there. Just give yourself time. Like you said yourself, you are twenty years old.
I also know how you feel (only flipped like Kelly said cause I too am a girl). It sucks believe me but there is probably some one out there who will treat you much better.

[ProtekYoNutz]

Originally Posted by superblonde

We've all been there. Just give yourself time. Like you said yourself, you are twenty years old.
I also know how you feel (only flipped like Kelly said cause I too am a girl). It sucks believe me but there is probably some one out there who will treat you much better.

agree wit da jenny

[foff667]

Originally Posted by superblonde

We've all been there.

i hated most of my ex's most of them while we were still dating

[foff667]

as for 317 dude dont sweat her theres a million more better then her out there...you just gotta find one of them but honestly if she doesnt have the same feelings move on its life. Look at it this way youve got $ for car parts now im thinkin gears, converter and suspension 8)

[Tru2Chevy]

Yea, I feel for ya man. I have been in a relationship where I thought she may be the one....didn't work out.....got back together.....still didn't work out. Lucky for me her and I are still friendly, but it hasn't always been that way. There was a period when she lashed out at me pretty badly.

I know you've heard it a thousand times, but things will end up the way they are supposed to.

I know how if feels to be head over heels in love with someone that you can't have. Either this chick will realize that she currently with some guy that's a tool, and come to you (like what happened to me ), or you will find someone else that will cram herself into the gaping hole in your heart.

Until either of those things happen, take some time to chill, do what relaxes you (go out for a nice drive or something), and try to enjoy the single life.

- Justin

[skorpion317]

i don't even have money....my car caused that, not my ex.

[ar0ck]

Suck it up Pat, at least you werent bonning her early. I can see it being worse if you made things work, and it blew up in your face.

Just dont take out the anger with the car. Things will get better.


Blow up her house

[Little G]

Originally Posted by TransAm4Life

Blow up her house

funny.

[skorpion317]

Originally posted by TransAm4Life:[qb]
Blow up her house[/qb]

she's away at school.

[Tru2Chevy]

Originally Posted by skorpion317

she's away at school.

Then blow up her dorm

- Justin

[twiztidz28]

same **** happened to me. Just relax its going to be hard but adventually you will realize the imaturity level of your ex and be happier that she isnt your girlfriend. my last gf i dated for a year and a half and the same **** happened to me. took me a while to get over it yea i cried a couple times but if you havent yet you never cared in the first place. i'll come up to pequanic and get ya and take ya to the stip club. that always clears my mind. 8) by the way im not a heartless piece of **** all of my realationships have lasted at least 9 months and i still talk to my ex that i started dating 7 years ago and we dated for 2 1/2 years. we didnt talk for a while but we are best friends now. strange **** happens but if ya want the strip club sounds good. i jsut really want to go havent been there since last december.

[BigAls87Z28]

Dude, I know exactly how you feel. Its gunna suck, no matter what anyone of us say how to fix it.
There wasnt a thing I could do to get my mind of this girl, and I couldnt understand why she left. Everywhere I went, everything I did, all the things I said would remind me of her.
Only thing that could get my mind off her was going out with my friends and trying to meet new girls. As soon as you meet someone new, your whole attitude will change.
Or do what I did....buy a new car
It sucks a lot now man, but get out and things will change.

[V]

girls are odd creatures.. my one ex broke up with me after 9 months together when she went off to college cuz she wanted to experience college life..., 2 months later i find out shes engaged, now shes been married almost a year, whatever she was a bitch and deserved nothing. before that i was with a girl for 2 years, and it ended cuz she "just didnt feel it anymore"... last year i was dating a girl who would seriously get mad at me for opening a door for her... but now i have a great girl whom i love, i plan to stay with her and we can see the possibility of a real future for us, like marriage. it took me a few years to find what i wanted and what i needed, i'm 24 now and i been through all the rough stuff and now it payed off, the ones who werent meant to be are no longer around and i have someone who appreciates me. I always told my friends i would never find someone and they told me not to give up and i never listened to them but they were right. so my advice is.. let it go, yes it will be rough to completely forget about her, but its possible, and hey look at it this way... theres a bunch of girls on this board, all sound sweet and decent and at the least they should have friends, maybe we need to set up an fbody dating game for all the singles.

[superblonde]

Originally Posted by SmokingSS

girls are odd creatures...

it's a gift...