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Originally Posted by Firebird67dude
when ur about to leave have ur pops say. "OK, I hope u get t boned by a 18 wheeler so i dont have to pay child support or talk to u anymore." more but not for minors to see. Anyway u just gotta let it go and wat doesnt kill u only makes u stronger.
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it still amazes me sometimes how people will say things without thinking about how they will affect those that hear them or the repercussions it will cause them now and later in life. getting through life is all that matters, but that doesn't mean people have to take a huge **** on your head just because they feel like it. your father may very well be frustrated with the child support situation but that is something he should not be discussing with you, and certainly not in such a hateful way. and what's with not wanting to talk with your child? no sense whatsoever.
if it doesn't kill you it will make you stronger. life is also a circle, in that what comes around goes around. all i hope is that i am there to watch it catch up on some of the true ******** i've known in my life. i don't spend a lot of time thinking about it, it's just one of those "wouldn't that be cool" things.
and about the drama... next week you will have a whole 'nother set of issues, so don't let this week's issues bog you down too much or take too much of your energy in thinking about them. next week you might actually have something that would be worth thinking about.
acceptance is something we all strive for on some level or other. it means more to some than others, but saying you don't care what other people think about you is complete ********. you care about what at least one other person thinks about you, whether that be an authority figure (parents, teachers, bosses) or a peer (co-workers, friends, gf/wife) - the rest is just a smoke screen.
