I am seriously depressed (girl problems)

[TheWraith]

Originally Posted by superblonde

wait, how did you know I was a superhero?

lol, I love this board...it's great.

your username is???

edit: i own page 4

[ProtekYoNutz]

Originally Posted by TalkingGoat

that smiley made me laugh out loud at work. i didn't notice that before.

this board is definitely shaping up to be warped and demented. my kind of people. 8)

haha nice!...yeah its kinda funny...

[twiztidz28]

Originally Posted by superblonde

wait, how did you know I was a superhero?

lol, I love this board...it's great.

anyone who wears an ass doughnut on their head is a superhero in my book

[superblonde]

Originally Posted by twiztidz28

anyone who wears an ass doughnut on their head is a superhero in my book

Well in that case, I am going to have to devise my superhero name and have a side kick.
Also, I must not forget that no superhero is complete without a theme song...

[ProtekYoNutz]

Originally Posted by twiztidz28

anyone who wears an ass doughnut on their head is a superhero in my book

lol wow we all r some special ppl

[Pat]

Originally Posted by ProtekYoNutz

n he wonders y he doesnt get ne.... silly pat

i get plenty

who said i wanted any from you anyway

[superblonde]

Originally Posted by SilverTransAm

i get plenty

who said i wanted any from you anyway

thems fightin words in my neighborhood...I jest...

lol, we are only kidding with you, Pat. Well, at least I am.

[DaytonaDan]

dont listen to pat for girl advice, only once did i get good advice from him and it was this.... "tell her to go jump off a bridge"

[skorpion317]

whoa serious hijackage...

on a lighter note, the kids formed by that couple would have some serious mental damage

[superblonde]

Originally Posted by skorpion317

whoa serious hijackage...

on a lighter note, the kids formed by that couple would have some serious mental damage

lol...yes not only would these imaginary children ride the short bus, but these window-lickers would own a whole fleet of them.
*tears of pride form*--I'm so dang proud of my hypothetical special children with mental damage.
Hey Tim, time for the caution tape helmet!!!!

[twiztidz28]

I'm a proud parent of the short bus kids.

[skorpion317]

these kids would need to be put on leashes and wear hockey helmets to school...and once there they'd need to be strapped into their seats to prevent them from just slipping out of them in a puddle of their own drool

[superblonde]

hey now, be nice to my hypothetical retarded children. they are the apples of my eyes...

[twiztidz28]

Originally Posted by superblonde

hey now, be nice to my hypothetical retarded children. they are the apples of my eyes...

Could we supply the kids with their very own superhero ass doughnuts

[superblonde]

Originally Posted by twiztidz28

Could we supply the kids with their very own superhero ass doughnuts

Excellent!!!!

[jims69camaro]

Originally Posted by superblonde

after seeing some of the guys from the boards, I wouldn't mind that either...hehehe. I definitely wouldn't mind that.

just keep reminding yourself that i'm married, and hopefully you'll get over me.

[superblonde]

Originally Posted by jims69camaro

just keep reminding yourself that i'm married, and hopefully you'll get over me.

*mopes around with broken heartedness* Alas, I will try, for I will be strong. Cry, cry, tear, tear, sadness.

[twiztidz28]

dont be sad well go play with out hockey helmet wearing, ass doughnut using, drooling, shortbus riding kids in a lil bit. they always make my day better.

[Pat]

Originally Posted by superblonde

thems fightin words in my neighborhood...I jest...

lol, we are only kidding with you, Pat. Well, at least I am.

i know

[Pat]

Originally Posted by DaytonaDan

dont listen to pat for girl advice, only once did i get good advice from him and it was this.... "tell her to go jump off a bridge"

that's completely BS. who was the one who kept you in all your crappy relationships longer than they were meant to last?! ME!!!

and you're wrong, i said to tell her to jump off a building, not a bridge. and i was right on with that one...

and you KNOW i'm right about the princeton chick...

[DaytonaDan]

that's completely BS. who was the one who kept you in all your crappy relationships longer than they were meant to last?! ME!!!

and you're wrong, i said to tell her to jump off a building, not a bridge. and i was right on with that one...

and you KNOW i'm right about the princeton chick...

Touche, it was a building, and thanks for reminding me that ur a jerk...now pat is down to two friends

Oh, and princeton chics are gonna support me when i get old, everyone knows if a girl goes to princeton she has to either be well off before hand or is going to be loaded starting a career...trouphy husband sounds good to everyone else right? Especially if you want expensive hobbies

[Pat]

Originally Posted by DaytonaDan

Touche, it was a building, and thanks for reminding me that ur a jerk...now pat is down to two friends

Oh, and princeton chics are gonna support me when i get old, everyone knows if a girl goes to princeton she has to either be well off before hand or is going to be loaded starting a career...trouphy husband sounds good to everyone else right? Especially if you want expensive hobbies

it would help if you knew how to spell "trophy"

[jims69camaro]

Originally Posted by superblonde

*mopes around with broken heartedness* Alas, I will try, for I will be strong. Cry, cry, tear, tear, sadness.

aw, now that's just ****ed up...

[jims69camaro]

Originally Posted by skorpion317

I just found out that my ex-g/f, who I was trying to get back together with, has rejected me. I am so hurt and confused right now...I don't know what to do....

We were supposed to hang out on Sunday...go out for a picnic or something...i called her 6 times saturday and sunday, and got no return phone call. I tried to IM her today, but she ignored me, and I read in her profile the following words:

"You can't make me love you if I don't. You can't make my heart feel what it won't."

Under that, the following:

"I've kissed many frogs in my life, but i finally found my prince...I love you XXXX!" XXXX is the guy she was hooking up with before i came back into the scene. I just called her 10 minutes ago....She told me she spent the weekend with XXXX down the shore, until sunday, and she decided he was the one, not me. She didn't even call me to tell me on sunday. She told me she doesn't see herself with me at all....and she's happy with XXXX. this is some messed-up *****...everything was going fine until the last 48 hours. then it all went to hell. she just wants to be friends, but i can't get over her. she's the only girl ive ever truly loved...i don't feel anything for other girls. i feel like a big hole has been ripped in my chest...my heart is empty. I'm alone right now...i can't talk to my parents about this, they'll give me the "I told you so" speech. I'm freaking out....idk what to do. someone just talk to me or something....

here comes the honesty, the answer you didn't want to hear.

this girl has problems. she is not the girl you knew, or she hid her capacity to be a psycho from you. someone who throws the above in a public profile has some serious issues. also, the fact that she did this and didn't talk with you about it shows the propensity for issues. you are better off with out her. and it's much better that it happened now than 5 years down the road when you are standing at the alter waiting for her and she never shows up.

love is a strange thing. i've only been in love three times in my life, yet the number of women i have been with is in the three digits. i can't say i used those women (sometimes i was used, though ) but i was searching for 'the one'. i either had very bad luck during my search or i missed one or two along the way. nothing heals a broken heart - time will only lessen the pain. you will always have a special place in your heart for this girl, as much as you dislike her right now.

i don't look at it as she rejected you, more like she's got some soul-searching to do herself. it's more her than it is you, and i would not take this to heart (as it appears you are doing/have done). you cannot simply shrug off a year and a half, but, with time, it will feel better. always look for the positive side of things - especially in situations like this. you are now free to continue the search, have a kick ass time with your buds, throw yourself into your car or your job or something else that you enjoy doing. you now have what most of us would kill for: time. use it wisely, not in despair because this girl moved on in one of the most despicable ways one could.

oh, and you are not alone. the number of replies to your posting should show you that (despite the hijackage). keep your chin up.

[skorpion317]

i have a livejournal account, so I took some time to write down what had happened and how I felt. the link was in my AIM profile. she looked at it, and this was the comment she left (she didn't put her name down, but it was too obvious that it was her anyway):

"Sorry to add to your hell but I must say that I cannot help but laugh after reading your pitiful assessment of your tragic hell. From knowing both sides of the story, you can't try to glorify yourself that you have done nothing wrong! 1) Her current "hook-up" is really her current boyfriend, who may I add makes her extremely happy. I know it's hard but if you truly care about someone you want to see them happy no matter what the circumstances may see fit. But no, you seem to think that just because you have a history you are better for her so you walz back trying to reclaim what you think is yours, but you can't take friendship into consideration. Showing up at her work, the constant phone calls and I love you... BULL!!!!!!!!!!!2) If I'm not mistaken I believe there was another girl trying to come between you and your ex while you were still going out with her- and you let her in the picture... tossing your now ex g/f out the window like yesterday's trash... I hate to break it to you but you're not the victim here. 3) after all is said in done you still wonder why things arent going in your favor, well lets recap 1 and 2 and we come to the conclusion that you never realized what an amazing person you had til she was gone! And now because of your selfish acts, you will always wonder about what could've been! Have a nice life! =)"

to which i replied:

"I never said I didn't do anything wrong. I realized my mistakes, and I tried to make it up.

But you don't care. You only wanted to make me feel as bad as you did. And I can see that now.

You don't seem so "amazing" to me now, after I realize how little you care about me. You're also a coward, you couldn't even put your own name down because you're too embarassed by the way you acted, XXXX."

i called her out by name on my journal, but i won't put her name here, hence the XXXX.

I then added a new entry to my journal:

"I didn't think it could get any worse. And yet it has.

I was lied to. My ex never cared about how I felt. She only wanted to see me suffer for the way I behaved 5 months ago. I was already sorry for what I had done, but apparently she thought that wasn't enough.

She has become one of the most selfish and immature people I have ever met. I wonder why I didn't see that before. And because she has turned into this person, I realize I was wrong to have tried to make it up to her. She is no better than I was 5 months ago. Someone who treated me this way doesn't deserve my love and affection. Someone who treated me this way doesn't even deserve my friendship."

I also IM'ed her, saying most of the stuff that appears in that entry. i told her until she grows up and apologizes to me, we cannot be friends. She will see those IM's when she gets back from cheerleading practice (which should be in a half-hour or so) and I am sure she will be itchin for a fight. I'll let everyone know how it turns out.