I still say Vineland on Landis Ave. Theres a crappy Denny's that has a bar like a block away. If you go 10 minutes straight up the road into Millville by the Cumberland Mall theres a ****load of restuarunts all next to each other. Applebees, Red Lobster, Texas Roadhouse, Bob Evans...
Tons of parking, others hang out there (60% rice), cops are usually cool and even if you do get kicked outta the lot you can just go a block up the road to another lot. Its right off Exit 32 on RT 55 and right near RT 47.
Theres also some decents roads to "play" on if your into that kinda stuff...