Ok got a VSS from the dealer and slapped it in and everything works fine now...it turns out i just had the wrong sensor...the dealer only showed one option for my year as opposed to 3 options at napa. So the speedo works now and all i have to do is calibrate it
i also need a new tail shaft housing for the 700r4 cause mine is cracked and leaking by sensor, i guess when i had tranny rebuilt they used a BFH to get it apart and cracked it