Need some prayers/help or some one to talk to..

[WayFast84]

Yeah so My grandma went into the hospital last week after having a stroke, she had another one tuesday, and is now in pretty bad shape, since then Ive been loosing my mind, broke up with my girlfreind twice, and then today I got news, my great uncle had a heart attack while gambling in a/c..I thought i was going throught the hardest period of my life this week, well today it got much worse..I quit my job, and am on the verge of getting kicked outa my house.


so please say a prayer for my grandma, my great uncle. and if you want me..

also if you feel like talking IM me at WARNINGitwayfast

THANKS ALOT,
Matt

[misterjuice]

Can I just ask why are you breaking up with your girlfriend, quitting your job, and getting kicked out of your house, over something that is not directly happening to you.

It's ok to be sad because they're family, but personally I see no point in letting that ruin your life the way you describe it.

I had a stroke 3 weeks ago and I'm still here......hanging out with people, working, having fun......it's not the end of the world.

[WayFast84]

Theirs probably something else bothering me, to but I dont know what it is, I broke up with my gf before i knew about the stroke, then went out with her again and she dumped me yesterday so that might be part of it.

[BonzoHansen]

Um, sit back and take a deep breathe. Your 15, girlfirends come & go. Loss is part of liife, as sad as it is. I've lost all my grandparents. You have to cope.

I have no idea what the comment about being thrown out is all about. What are you breaking ****? BTW, I think it might be illegal to throw a 15 y/o out of a house.

[j0n]

your "girlfriend" means nothing at 16 years old...dont even worry about it

[PBodyGT87]

Hey listen, keep your mindset positive, that's the best way to cope. Stay strong for your family. It'll be okay.

[chevyt454]

Prayers going out, buddy.

[foff667]

Hey listen, keep your mindset positive, that's the best way to cope. Stay strong for your family. It'll be okay.

:stupid: my prayers will be with you but your too young to have this many problems...keep a positive outlook, you've got your whole life ahead of you.

[foff667]

I had a stroke 3 weeks ago and I'm still here......hanging out with people, working, having fun......it's not the end of the world.

dude wtf your like 20 something...makes me think I shouldn't have had that extra strip of bacon this morning :lol:

[qwikz28]

be strong buddy :)

[jola]

I feel like a lot of people are having bad weeks. Just hang in there, things will turn around eventually. And you legally can't be kicked out of your house if you are 15 and attending school.

[ShitOnWheels]

dude wtf your like 20 something...makes me think I shouldn't have had that extra strip of bacon this morning :lol:
Scary ain't it? We've all been changed by it and made changes because of it. He changed the most drastically, of course.

[misterjuice]

Scary ain't it? We've all been changed by it and made changes because of it. He changed the most drastically, of course.

I'm still a jet flyin' ..... limousine ridin' ..... wheelin' dealin'...... kiss stealin' son of a gun.............WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!

[V]

matt hospitals suck and having loved ones not doing so well is also horrible, but you gotta stay strong. 6 years ago on the job, i found my dad unconcious and bleeding from where he hit his temple on a rock. hes never been the same since due to brain damage from then, also now hes 71 and has parkinsons disease setting in. i have no grandparents anymore, my last one died when i was 17. Just say a prayer and keep faith in your heart that things will work out, and i can pretty much assure you, no matter what happens, its most likely for the best.

Now the job thing, quitting may not have been the best idea, its not about the money, its because it'll keep your mind occupied and you wont over-analize stuff. At least now just try to keep busy and dont sit home dwelling on everything bad.

relationships...they are a mystery to all, eh me and my gf just broke up this week, it does suck and we were together for almost 3 years. i much older (26) so its more of an akward place in my life, its rough, but you recover and move on. In my case, it caused the completion of my SS to be pushed way up and its not on the back burner anymore.. since i have no life now. haha

[WayFast84]

Thanks alot guys..

and by "kicked out" I mean..sent to live with my dad
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and paul, im gonna try to keep my self busy by working on my car, and Im gonna start detailing cars from my house. I think it would be alot easier on me, just the fact that the enviroment is pretty good, and im my own boss..

[misterjuice]

also, remember to get your blood pressure tested :) you don't wanna come down with a stroke or anything..

[WayFast84]

well I was told she was paralysed on her right side, she cant talk either..

[bad64chevelle]

Matt keep your chin up man. I think its been a really bad few weeks for some NJFBOA members. Paul I can sympathize with you. Me and my girlfriend broke up 2 weeks ago, we were together for three and a half years. I think keeping yourself busy is a great idea, I have been trying to do the same, and it seems to work. Good luck matt!

[WayFast84]

Matt keep your chin up man. I think its been a really bad few weeks for some NJFBOA members. Paul I can sympathize with you. Me and my girlfriend broke up 2 weeks ago, we were together for three and a half years. I think keeping yourself busy is a great idea, I have been trying to do the same, and it seems to work. Good luck matt!
Ive been trying to keep my self busy, but I cant do it, all of my freinds where hers.. no one wants to hang out.. I cant do any work on the bird.. im off tomorrow, and its gonna be a train wreck..

so if any one wants to lend a hand working on my car and has the tools for valve springs, tomorrow is a good day for me..

[JL8Jeff]

Matt, hang in there! My grandmother had a stroke like 15 years ago and she's still hanging around at 96 right now. It sucks to lose your relatives no matter what. Don't worry about the g-friend thing right now. But let us know how the living conditions go between mom and dad. You don't want to have to pick sides either way and from what I've seen your mom is really cool about you hanging out with car people. Take a few really deep breaths and collect yourself. This is the only way you can deal with this kind of stuff the rest of your life! Hang in there man and let us know how it goes!

[WayFast84]

Going to live with my dad probably wont happen... ive been threatend with that one or two times, where all under lots of stress.. my mom is under the most because shes gotta figure out a way to get her uncle back home from alantic city, and we still dont know what happened, or at least I dont..

[jimmyboy8301]

as for the grandparent thing and uncle, sorry to hear it. be glad they are still around. as for the girl thing it SUCKS, i can definately testify to that and many people here know what i mean. girls come and go it's part of life. your 15 bro you have a looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong time before worrying about a serious relationship. just have fun and be happy being you. ( i can't believe i said that). but seriously don't stress over some girl there are plenty out there.

[WayFast84]

Im not stressing over the girl.

Im stressed that
-she wont leave me alone
- every one is on her side
- because I went out with her, i realized i ruined a chance at a great relation ship with another girl..

[Mike]

Im not stressing over the girl.

Im stressed that
- because I went out with her, i realized i ruined a chance at a great relation ship with another girl..


that happens EVERY time, key is not being the scumbag that acts on those chances while having a girlfriend... better in the long run

[WayFast84]

What happened was I liked this girl before I liked my ex.. this girl liked me, but we never got to hang out because I didnt like her best freind, who was always going to be their when we where, so i sorta just gave up. now exzactly 7 months later were talking and i wont ever have a chance with her because shes my ex's freind..

[BonzoHansen]

It won't be the last girl you lose. Buck up.

[unstable bob gable]

Hang in there, kiddo!

[WayFast84]

I got an offer to go back to work, Im not sure If I will or not, I probably will..

[Tru2Chevy]

Sorry to hear that things have been rough man....

First off, if some girl won't go out with you because of a person you dated previously, then she isn't worth your time.

Secondly, I think you should take their offer to go back to work....the income is nice, and it will keep you busy.

- Justin

[WayFast84]

yeah Ill go back next friday, I was just frustrated.. plus the fact that I make more money an hour then all the seniors in my law class is great! and I only have 4 more weeks till they close down.

[WayFast84]

So, ive been talking to a kid on my bus, aparently devines pharmacy highers 15 y/o's and needs some people, Im gonna go aply in a week or two.

I turned down being freinds with benifits with a chick, today and realized I need my g/f we are now going out..if she doesnt change im leaving her for good....

My grandma was mooved to a hospi something..in edison(by menlomall) so real close to us, my mom told me, she probably wont go home, wont go better, and Im lucky I had a real nice talk with her when I saw her, Im crying right now because, i forgot to tell her I love her, and she will probably never understand what it means again

[Mike]

So, ive been talking to a kid on my bus, aparently devines pharmacy highers 15 y/o's and needs some people, Im gonna go aply in a week or two.

I turned down being freinds with benifits with a chick, today and realized I need my g/f we are now going out..if she doesnt change im leaving her for good....

My grandma was mooved to a hospi something..in edison(by menlomall) so real close to us, my mom told me, she probably wont go home, wont go better, and Im lucky I had a real nice talk with her when I saw her, Im crying right now because, i forgot to tell her I love her, and she will probably never understand what it means again


1. dont wait a week or to to apply, the jobs will fill up
2. she wont change, and if she does call the guiness book of records.
3. she will ALWAYS know you love her, that should be the least of your worries concerning your gma...


btw, im not always a prick

[WayFast84]

I know she knew I loved her, but im not even sure that she knows who her own kids are let alone grand kids, let alone me who she saw once or twice a year...

[WayFast84]

I reaaly need some one to talk to now..

We cleaned the whole house expecting everyone to come over around 3..

the doc said, it looks like she wont be able to make it through the week end..

so every one is spending time with one another at the hospi something..


My aunt told everyone not to see her if you dont want to, and to remember her from the last time we saw her, so I had a pretty good conversation with her then, so im not gonna go...

I realized one thing from this, you only live once, why not have fun and live it up now!!!?

[WayFast84]

my grandma died

[johnjzjz]

my grandma died



SHARE IN THE JOY THAT YOU GOT TO KNOW HER AND ALWAYS THINK OF HER AS IN GOOD TIMES --- JZ

[WildBillyT]

my grandma died

Matt, I'm sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.

Just remember that death is a part of life, and remember all of the good times you had. Celebrate her life.

Be glad you got to talk with her one last time. Many of us did not have that luxury when a loved one died.

[BonzoHansen]

Indeed. Well put.

[WayFast84]

i know that but I still feel like she was taken from us, she was in the hospital, on medication, she shouldnt of had another stroke, or atleast one that would eventually make her lifeless and then die from it..

[JL8Jeff]

Matt, sorry to hear about your grandmother. Hang in there, these things happen and they will happen again. The first direct relative you lose is the toughest one.

[WayFast84]

I know no one cares but still,

Today was the LONGEST, TOUGHEST, Yet the most happiest day of my life.

The day started with me waking up at 7, seeing my mom out side talking to her, not making out the words because I was half asleep.. I looked for the "ironed" shirt, all over the house couldnt find it, (was locked in moms office)then I reluctently put on the shirt I was saposed to wear tomorow.

Got ready,bla bla bla, went to my aunts, on the way there stopped at gas station for my sisters cigarettes, she smoked 4-5 on the way there. LESS THEN AN HOUR!! woah..

got there, and the mood was normalish, of coarse everyone was sad, but under the circumstance everyone was there selfs. I met my dads brother, my uncle mark, for the first time in my life(ive met him before, but not at an age i could talk,walk let alone remember). ate lunch, road to the funeral home with my cousin and her bf.

got to the funeral home, EVERYONE stood out side IN FRONT OF THE NO SMOKING SIGN and smoked.. And we saw a butterfly(this will come into play later) they finish smoking and we head inside, all of my aunts and uncles(excluding my "dad") go up first, then some one wanted to go up with me, i didnt go. my aunts cried and laughed(dont know why laughed) then my cousin went up and cried, cam right back upset saying it didnt even look like her. then everyone else went up besides for my cousin bobby, he broke down, bad, with out her he probably wouldnt be alive today, no matter what he did she was always there. he eventually got used to it and went up.

we then saw a dvd, of pictures, and cried alot, and i mean ALOT, their was one picture that was just her, it was of her behind a couch half of her face sticking up with a pink curler in her hair. their was one of her feeding me a bottle as a baby with my cousin nick next to us.

I realized after we calmed down the prayer card was a butterfly, their where fake butterflys on the coffin and pictures of them around her. their is no doubt in my mind that the butterfly we saw before we went in was a sign from her!

her freinds came and a few other non imediate family members came. we went back to the house because the visiting hours wher over. ate dinner went back, I met alot of cousins i didnt know I had, and found out my oldest cousin is 60 years old!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

we then went back to the funeral home again it was a pact house so for an hour and a half i sat out side talking to my cousins wife, about everything and felt a bond with her now.

im leaving out lots of details for time...

and I turned down being a paul berrer because I was scared to, and then I went up to the coughin and i felt something over me, and i told my aunt ill do it if they still need it.

I just hope this brings me closer to everyone! and my dad even closer to his brother and sisters..