Need some prayers/help or some one to talk to.. - NJFBOA - Home of New Jersey's Camaros and Firebirds

WayFast84 · 09-30-2006, 09:54 AM

Yeah so My grandma went into the hospital last week after having a stroke, she had another one tuesday, and is now in pretty bad shape, since then Ive been loosing my mind, broke up with my girlfreind twice, and then today I got news, my great uncle had a heart attack while gambling in a/c..I thought i was going throught the hardest period of my life this week, well today it got much worse..I quit my job, and am on the verge of getting kicked outa my house.

so please say a prayer for my grandma, my great uncle. and if you want me..

also if you feel like talking IM me at WARNINGitwayfast

THANKS ALOT,
Matt

misterjuice · 09-30-2006, 10:03 AM

Can I just ask why are you breaking up with your girlfriend, quitting your job, and getting kicked out of your house, over something that is not directly happening to you.

It's ok to be sad because they're family, but personally I see no point in letting that ruin your life the way you describe it.

I had a stroke 3 weeks ago and I'm still here......hanging out with people, working, having fun......it's not the end of the world.

WayFast84 · 09-30-2006, 10:13 AM

Theirs probably something else bothering me, to but I dont know what it is, I broke up with my gf before i knew about the stroke, then went out with her again and she dumped me yesterday so that might be part of it.

BonzoHansen · 09-30-2006, 10:16 AM

Um, sit back and take a deep breathe. Your 15, girlfirends come & go. Loss is part of liife, as sad as it is. I've lost all my grandparents. You have to cope.

I have no idea what the comment about being thrown out is all about. What are you breaking ****? BTW, I think it might be illegal to throw a 15 y/o out of a house.

j0n · 09-30-2006, 10:18 AM

your "girlfriend" means nothing at 16 years old...dont even worry about it

PBodyGT87 · 09-30-2006, 10:55 AM

Hey listen, keep your mindset positive, that's the best way to cope. Stay strong for your family. It'll be okay.

chevyt454 · 09-30-2006, 11:07 AM

Prayers going out, buddy.

foff667 · 09-30-2006, 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by PBodyGT87

Hey listen, keep your mindset positive, that's the best way to cope. Stay strong for your family. It'll be okay.

my prayers will be with you but your too young to have this many problems...keep a positive outlook, you've got your whole life ahead of you.

foff667 · 09-30-2006, 11:16 AM

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Originally Posted by misterjuice

I had a stroke 3 weeks ago and I'm still here......hanging out with people, working, having fun......it's not the end of the world.

dude wtf your like 20 something...makes me think I shouldn't have had that extra strip of bacon this morning

qwikz28 · 09-30-2006, 11:46 AM

be strong buddy

jola · 09-30-2006, 01:09 PM

I feel like a lot of people are having bad weeks. Just hang in there, things will turn around eventually. And you legally can't be kicked out of your house if you are 15 and attending school.

ShitOnWheels · 09-30-2006, 01:12 PM

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Originally Posted by foff667

dude wtf your like 20 something...makes me think I shouldn't have had that extra strip of bacon this morning

Scary ain't it? We've all been changed by it and made changes because of it. He changed the most drastically, of course.

misterjuice · 09-30-2006, 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by ****OnWheels

Scary ain't it? We've all been changed by it and made changes because of it. He changed the most drastically, of course.

I'm still a jet flyin' ..... limousine ridin' ..... wheelin' dealin'...... kiss stealin' son of a gun.............WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!

V · 09-30-2006, 01:17 PM

matt hospitals suck and having loved ones not doing so well is also horrible, but you gotta stay strong. 6 years ago on the job, i found my dad unconcious and bleeding from where he hit his temple on a rock. hes never been the same since due to brain damage from then, also now hes 71 and has parkinsons disease setting in. i have no grandparents anymore, my last one died when i was 17. Just say a prayer and keep faith in your heart that things will work out, and i can pretty much assure you, no matter what happens, its most likely for the best.

Now the job thing, quitting may not have been the best idea, its not about the money, its because it'll keep your mind occupied and you wont over-analize stuff. At least now just try to keep busy and dont sit home dwelling on everything bad.

relationships...they are a mystery to all, eh me and my gf just broke up this week, it does suck and we were together for almost 3 years. i much older (26) so its more of an akward place in my life, its rough, but you recover and move on. In my case, it caused the completion of my SS to be pushed way up and its not on the back burner anymore.. since i have no life now. haha

WayFast84 · 09-30-2006, 01:18 PM

Thanks alot guys..

and by "kicked out" I mean..sent to live with my dad
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and paul, im gonna try to keep my self busy by working on my car, and Im gonna start detailing cars from my house. I think it would be alot easier on me, just the fact that the enviroment is pretty good, and im my own boss..

misterjuice · 09-30-2006, 01:35 PM

also, remember to get your blood pressure tested

you don't wanna come down with a stroke or anything..

WayFast84 · 10-01-2006, 07:12 PM

well I was told she was paralysed on her right side, she cant talk either..

bad64chevelle · 10-01-2006, 07:26 PM

Matt keep your chin up man. I think its been a really bad few weeks for some NJFBOA members. Paul I can sympathize with you. Me and my girlfriend broke up 2 weeks ago, we were together for three and a half years. I think keeping yourself busy is a great idea, I have been trying to do the same, and it seems to work. Good luck matt!

WayFast84 · 10-01-2006, 07:29 PM

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Originally Posted by bad64chevelle

Matt keep your chin up man. I think its been a really bad few weeks for some NJFBOA members. Paul I can sympathize with you. Me and my girlfriend broke up 2 weeks ago, we were together for three and a half years. I think keeping yourself busy is a great idea, I have been trying to do the same, and it seems to work. Good luck matt!

Ive been trying to keep my self busy, but I cant do it, all of my freinds where hers.. no one wants to hang out.. I cant do any work on the bird.. im off tomorrow, and its gonna be a train wreck..

so if any one wants to lend a hand working on my car and has the tools for valve springs, tomorrow is a good day for me..

JL8Jeff · 10-01-2006, 08:13 PM

Matt, hang in there! My grandmother had a stroke like 15 years ago and she's still hanging around at 96 right now. It sucks to lose your relatives no matter what. Don't worry about the g-friend thing right now. But let us know how the living conditions go between mom and dad. You don't want to have to pick sides either way and from what I've seen your mom is really cool about you hanging out with car people. Take a few really deep breaths and collect yourself. This is the only way you can deal with this kind of stuff the rest of your life! Hang in there man and let us know how it goes!

WayFast84 · 10-01-2006, 09:05 PM

Going to live with my dad probably wont happen... ive been threatend with that one or two times, where all under lots of stress.. my mom is under the most because shes gotta figure out a way to get her uncle back home from alantic city, and we still dont know what happened, or at least I dont..

jimmyboy8301 · 10-01-2006, 09:33 PM

as for the grandparent thing and uncle, sorry to hear it. be glad they are still around. as for the girl thing it SUCKS, i can definately testify to that and many people here know what i mean. girls come and go it's part of life. your 15 bro you have a looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong time before worrying about a serious relationship. just have fun and be happy being you. ( i can't believe i said that). but seriously don't stress over some girl there are plenty out there.

WayFast84 · 10-01-2006, 09:37 PM

Im not stressing over the girl.

Im stressed that
-she wont leave me alone
- every one is on her side
- because I went out with her, i realized i ruined a chance at a great relation ship with another girl..

Mike · 10-01-2006, 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by WayFast84

Im not stressing over the girl.

Im stressed that
- because I went out with her, i realized i ruined a chance at a great relation ship with another girl..

that happens EVERY time, key is not being the scumbag that acts on those chances while having a girlfriend... better in the long run

WayFast84 · 10-01-2006, 09:42 PM

What happened was I liked this girl before I liked my ex.. this girl liked me, but we never got to hang out because I didnt like her best freind, who was always going to be their when we where, so i sorta just gave up. now exzactly 7 months later were talking and i wont ever have a chance with her because shes my ex's freind..