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Blacdout96 · 10-08-2009, 10:08 AM

http://www.fquick.com/blog/Dad__Uncl...ro_Bumper/3379

Has the world become this much of a pussy anymore that you can't dicipline you're kids anymore. They didn't beat him ,and it was only on for 15 minutes, world needs to loosen up.

sweetbmxrider · 10-08-2009, 10:24 AM

shoot the kid

LTb1ow · 10-08-2009, 10:35 AM

Cut off a leg.

Saitin · 10-08-2009, 10:40 AM

there was no such thing a ADHD when I was a kid, but then again if I mouthed off to my dad I got smacked upside the head or a ass beating but look I have a job make money and live a good life unlike most these kids now days who are going to grow up and be ****s to the community cause they have never been disciplined.
Child abuse is one thing but not allowing parents to discipline a child is just asking for problems, where does it give them the right to tell some one how to raise there kid?

Squirrel · 10-08-2009, 10:48 AM

Parents just need to teach their kids at an early age that getting cracked is fine

Mulletbird · 10-08-2009, 11:01 AM

I'm just 21, but I clearly remember growing up, my old man had TWO belts on him at all times. One was to hold his pants up, and I don't think I need to mention what the second belt was for.

LTb1ow · 10-08-2009, 11:03 AM

Emergency tourniquets?

Saitin · 10-08-2009, 11:38 AM

IMO it's the schools fault..
They drive into every kids head that punishment/discipline is abuse now days.
I remember the last year or so in school they where telling kids if your parents ever spanked or hit you with a belt or switch or it was abuse.

FlyingDutchman · 10-08-2009, 12:43 PM

if they were beating on a normal kid, that'd be one thing...seriously though, the kids breaking **** which costs money and hes only 14 ! imagine what he will do in a couple years ?! what else do you do for someone like that ?

LTb1ow · 10-08-2009, 12:44 PM

Lots of drugs and a padded room?

Mike · 10-08-2009, 12:46 PM

so, intense punishment is good in this case, but, bad for people on provisional licenses?

NastyEllEssWon · 10-08-2009, 12:52 PM

kids today have no idea what abuse is. i wont make any excuses for my son when im out in public, if he acts up he knows what he's gonna get. i dont beat him but ill be damned if a smack across the ass doesnt wisen him right up. the funny thing is, i havent had to lay across his ass very often either, just mentioning he's gonna get in trouble puts the red right back on his ass in his mind

LTb1ow · 10-08-2009, 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by cbrrmike

so, intense punishment is good in this case, but, bad for people on provisional licenses?

Your logic is no good here.

FlyingDutchman · 10-08-2009, 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by cbrrmike

so, intense punishment is good in this case, but, bad for people on provisional licenses?

sure if its destructive behavior lock em up! its their choice if they wanna try and escape a chain and bumper and beat themselves up, they said they didnt hurt him he hurt himself

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Originally Posted by NastyEllEssWon

kids today have no idea what abuse is. i wont make any excuses for my son when im out in public, if he acts up he knows what he's gonna get. i dont beat him but ill be damned if a smack across the ass doesnt wisen him right up. the funny thing is, i havent had to lay across his ass very often either, just mentioning he's gonna get in trouble puts the red right back on his ass in his mind

^^ exactly, if you know fire burns why touch it?

Mike · 10-08-2009, 12:59 PM

what destructive behavior? he didn't break anything until he was locked up according to the story, all he did was threaten to run away... TONS of kids do that to get attention.

it also doesn't say how the kid lost an arm, maybe its not the first time daddy chained him to something...

LTb1ow · 10-08-2009, 01:04 PM

They should sell him a new GM caprice, and with his provincial license he should get two tickets and then whine about the prejudice and injustice of it.

FlyingDutchman · 10-08-2009, 01:08 PM

I've seen first hand (with more than one person in different scenarios), it's different for everyone, but people don't just walk away from confrontation/arguments/etc. they tend to do something stupid like kick stuff or throw things on their way out to try and make a point.

Besides, if it only took him 15 minutes to flip out like that then I wouldn't put it past the kid that he has done it before and will do it again.

Blacdout96 · 10-08-2009, 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by LTs1ow

They should sell him a new GM caprice, and with his provincial license he should get two tickets and then whine about the prejudice and injustice of it.

Statement award of the day goes to you good sir.

thunder · 10-08-2009, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by LTs1ow

They should sell him a new GM caprice, and with his provincial license he should get two tickets and then whine about the prejudice and injustice of it.

when did i whine about getting 2 tickets?

LTb1ow · 10-08-2009, 01:14 PM

Why do you assume that was directed towards you?

Guilty mind eh?

LOL... I was just throwing things together..

thunder · 10-08-2009, 01:15 PM

and on a note more relevant to the original subject my dad used the belt for when i was bad and the belt buckle for when i was BAD

LTb1ow · 10-08-2009, 01:19 PM

Never beat as a kid, and in my spare time I beat up old people and hold up candy stores.

WildBillyT · 10-08-2009, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Saitin

IMO it's the schools fault..
They drive into every kids head that punishment/discipline is abuse now days.
I remember the last year or so in school they where telling kids if your parents ever hit you with a belt or switch or any object it was abuse.

So discipline is the school's responsibility now? PLEASE.

It's bad parenting at its best. It's the parents' job to teach them right from wrong. And teaching somebody what's wrong involves more than just an ass kicking.

Blacdout96 · 10-08-2009, 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by WildBillyT

So discipline is the school's responsibility now? PLEASE.

It's bad parenting at its best. It's the parents' job to teach them right from wrong. And teaching somebody what's wrong involves more than just an ass kicking.

I think what he means is that parents are disciplining, but the schools are teaching them to call the cops on their parents when something like physical discipline happens to them, so in the end, the kids dont learn anything but that they can do what they want in a sense and when the parents step in, they fight back with police and charges. there's no liency for that **** anymore.

WildBillyT · 10-08-2009, 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Blacdout96

I think what he means is that parents are disciplining, but the schools are teaching them to call the cops on their parents when something like physical discipline happens to them, so in the end, the kids dont learn anything but that they can do what they want in a sense and when the parents step in, they fight back with police and charges. there's no liency for that **** anymore.

Yeah, that **** ain't right. It's one thing if a kid comes in with bruises. It's another to try and bust up a family over something that the school admins probably know little about or are trying to bait an abuse case.